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bustinout20202 65F  
869 posts
1/13/2022 10:32 am
Messages Missing?? Paranormal Activity Again??


Hi y'all!

Anyone else experiencing their messages disappearing?

I just went to check them today. My notification says I have some, but when I click on it to retrieve them, I got nuthin, nada, zip.

This is the 2nd time this has happened to me here in the last couple of months. What is going on??


~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


bustinout20202 65F  
1080 posts
1/13/2022 10:34 am

It's like the disppearing and reappearing words in a post, only its not on the blog section.
hmm...

~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


leefury7 71M

1/13/2022 11:33 am

Yep. Were those messages from standard users? They have stopped allowing standard users from using their points to become Top Fan in order to send/receive a message. That is no longer allowed. I have posted an email from A FF customer service declaring it. If you read between the lines they are changing the site to where standard, i.e. non-paying members while have most if not all their privileges revoked. Points are basically useless now.


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 5:58 am:
Yeah, I wrote a comment the other day that I think the reason behind making all the private mailbox comments public is so standard members don't have a workaround to communicate with folks. So what's available for standard members, window shopping? profile thumbnails only? hmmm....

redrockrascal 63M  
23580 posts
1/13/2022 11:45 am

    Quoting leefury7:
    Yep. Were those messages from standard users? They have stopped allowing standard users from using their points to become Top Fan in order to send/receive a message. That is no longer allowed. I have posted an email from A FF customer service declaring it. If you read between the lines they are changing the site to where standard, i.e. non-paying members while have most if not all their privileges revoked. Points are basically useless now.
When did this change happen?

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bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:00 am:
Hi Red!
This has been an on/off thing for me. Happened twice. I figured it was something to do with the "new and improved [?]" site conversion. It's just so annoying!

funsnellvillecpl 65M/52F  
3901 posts
1/13/2022 11:46 am

YES . all my messages are missing. Says I have a new one , but ZERO there


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:01 am:
Yep, that's what I saw too! Then I wondered if ALL messages, blog or not, become public??

crosstraining 69T  
8367 posts
1/13/2022 11:52 am

Im sure it has to do with the new community thing , I've never gone over there to see what's up since I'm not a blogger , but when they do implement it I hope it doesn't effect the rest of the site , but I'm probably wrong , you take care n be safe my Dear , XOXO


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:02 am:
Thanks! you too!

TB5758 64M/65F  
577 posts
1/13/2022 12:13 pm

Yes, they disappeared, and I was sitting there looking like a hog staring at a wristwatch! I felt violated and then they came back again which was a relief.


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:03 am:
I have never seen a hog with a wristwatch!! Was it an Apple watch or a Fitbit??! Lol!

benard69 64M/64F  
6298 posts
1/13/2022 12:31 pm

Yep mail is acting whacky...Again...But whats new 'eh?


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:06 am:
I know, right?! I will never understand the tinkering...if it ain't broke, don't fix it! But why have they never addressed all the glitches with punctuation and dropped words in blogs??smh...

citizen4722 64M  
74582 posts
1/13/2022 1:09 pm

I've decided to keep blogging and commenting on here and not use the new community blog. I just don't like it for a start.
I have noticed some of my comments going missing.


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:07 am:
See? So weird!!

HAMONMAN 62M  
13129 posts
1/13/2022 1:13 pm

WTF A_F_F ?

I recently top-fanned someone so as to reply to an email they sent me.
After a few days never heard back from them , thought they were screwing with me, so, de-Top-Fanned and blocked them.


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:09 am:
I didn't know that top fanning [as opposed to bottom fanning, lol! ] soneone gave you the ability to email them.

Heat0fTheNight 68M  
56 posts
1/13/2022 1:17 pm

I've just noticed this too. It's all the messages in the active folder that are gone. At the moment, the pending messages are still there.


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:12 am:
Yeah, the little mailbox thingy [techie that I am,lol!] said I had new messages [emails] but when I opened it up it said, "no messages here". Its like a true visual representation of the right hand not knowing what the left hand is doing!

funsnellvillecpl 65M/52F  
3901 posts
1/13/2022 1:18 pm

well i wrote them and now all mine are back


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:13 am:
I'll check mine too. These are like power outages in windy weather around here. Goes dark for about a minute, then, just as your eyes adjust to the dark, everything comes on again!

Brownie202 65F  
2680 posts
1/13/2022 1:23 pm

If didn't read them yet it is called false notifications. Under the help section and next I believe is under mail. My problem with mail is the block option no longer works.

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If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:14 am:
Thanks Brownie, I'll check that out.

CleavageFan4U 65M  
69374 posts
1/13/2022 3:17 pm

I'm a man, we don't get messages here, so I can't respond to your inquiry.

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bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:15 am:
Ha ha ha!! Wait, I sent you messages before!

LadiesR2B1rst 59M  
2735 posts
1/13/2022 4:19 pm

Wish I could help but, I don't have a clue.


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:16 am:
Thanks, so weird tho', right?

Johnnyroyall3 45M
1 post
1/13/2022 7:20 pm

You are soooooo sexy


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:16 am:
Thanks Johnny Royall! Great username, btw!

G000dbuddy 34M  
1676 posts
1/13/2022 10:12 pm

Recent posts got deleted
No use in being V.I.P

goodbuddy781


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:17 am:
Oh man, Good Buddy! did they come back for you? Do you mean on your blog or in your message box too?

HughJardon62 60M

1/14/2022 5:41 am

Mine disappear all the time. I just figured that it was part of being a male, standard member.

I'm a standard member, so normal messaging doesn't work.
But we can chat on my blog, "We Can Talk Here"


bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 6:53 am:
Nope, looks like its an equal opportunity glitch! Mine are back now, tho'

EnigmaInitiative 54F  
6054 posts
1/14/2022 8:02 am

Happens to me all the time.

That's not to mention that my inbox indicates I have five unread messages that don't exist, it's been like that for at least the last six weeks.

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bustinout20202 replies on 1/14/2022 8:41 am:
Yeah, I've had that too. Crazy.

DanielZwat1950 72M  
436 posts
1/26/2022 4:53 am

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