AgoraCosmopolitan Dating


TB5758 64M/65F  
29 posts
11/22/2018 9:35 am

Some people you find on the site seem interesting, you agree to meet, but they absolutely refuse to reveal themselves. They also only want to use the site to converse. Well the fact is the site is undependable and is okay initially but not good for future conversations. If the other person is not on, then you are in a waiting mode. seems to be a great alternative but a lot of people are so paranoid they won’t even consider it. So, it leads me to this. I am not sure of anyone who would take the time to get ready, drive somewhere to meet a person they have no way to identify. We were fooled once by a gentleman that had photos which were not even remotely close to his actual appearance. That is one thing and shame on him. The idea of concealing your face and body until the first meeting is just ridiculous. We don’t speak for everyone, but we will never meet under those circumstances. We would not expect anyone to meet us that way either. We have careers, vanilla friends and family as well. We do not want them to know what we do as adults. There should be an unspoken code of discretion for all of us who play irrespective your individual kink and desires. No face, no body, no meeting. We think this is fair.

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 61M
3847 posts
11/22/2018 10:15 am

I agree. Have waited long times for those I wish to talk to to contact me an alternate way, but many wont take that step, and so we never really talk, much less meet.

cumalluwant 56M
90 posts
1/18/2019 8:37 am

Bravo and well stated..

bande6365 57M/59F  
145 posts
4/8/2019 6:12 am

Agree 100%. And if someone isn’t willing to go off site....or in some cases, “too” willing to go off site, itcan be a red flag.

1seeking1 56F  
3767 posts
4/27/2019 6:30 am

Well put , i understand not having face pic here. I can always provide one. So many think I will meet without knowing what they look like. The ones who do not look like their pics, what a waste of time. Wish more were honest.....

TB5758 replies on 4/30/2019 3:32 pm:
Thanks for reading. Yes honesty is important especially when you are in this type of lifestyle as it is called.

Yohan8u 52M  
24 posts
1/3/2020 5:08 am

What get's me is the people who want to meet at my house, but refuse to give me a phone #. If I am expected to trust someone enough to give out my address, they should trust me enough to give me their number. If you don't trust me we can meet in public first

TB5758 replies on 1/22/2020 4:54 pm:
100 percent right!

Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
11/19/2021 12:55 pm

You know I have been a member some twenty plus years and I get what your saying. Sometimes it takes time to meet someone. But I have to say taking your time and getting to know someone can be worth the time it takes sometimes. There are so many great people here if you get to know them, and it makes for a much better meeting when the time presents itself.

I wanted to say thank you for taking the time to make sure your wife is safe when wanting to meet someone from the site, as you can't be to careful here..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..

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