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When a woman makes a bad choice or picks the wrong one  

Suppletitties 60M
145 posts
9/26/2020 4:18 pm
When a woman makes a bad choice or picks the wrong one


Why is it: when a woman comes on this site, sets her criteria, qualifies the guy and selects him, then he turns out be a jerk. Why does she blame the dude, he was a jerk from the beginning, why doesn't she take RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER BAD DECISION MAKING? She picked him, he was a jerk before, but he was good enough get through the selection process.

SO SOMEWHERE IN THAT HER PROCESS IS FLAWED, BECAUSE IT DIDN'T DO WHAT IT WAS SUPPOSED TOO. YOU SET THE TABLE SO LIVE WITH YOUR BAD CHOICE, BUT DONT BLAME THE GUY FOR BEING WHO HE WAS ALL ALONG.

BiggLala 48F  
29059 posts
9/26/2020 10:47 pm

I can change the gender pronouns in this entire post to the men, him, his, etc. and it still be the same. I don't say that to sound like sour grapes. I say it because it's a PEOPLE issue, not a gender issue. It's not uncommon for a man to blame the woman for *his* bad choice.

Plus, it's not necessarily that the person's (woman OR man) process was flawed...could be. It it often that the other person (woman OR man) she/he selected was not honest about who they are and/or their intentions. And...of course, people tend to call the person they selected a jerk/asshole/bitch/slut when they don't get what they wanted, things didn't go their way.

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Suppletitties replies on 10/8/2020 1:18 pm:
you are right, I just rather say I made a fucked up choice and keep it moving at the end of the day I'm the one that said yes.

jajo696 65F
2725 posts
9/27/2020 2:14 pm

Its def an issue of being on their best best behavior initially, which is why ive been called a turtle becuz i take my time in getting to know someone before venturing any further....cuz my motto is: No one can pretend to be sane forever, sooner or later the crazy /ugly turns up. ~~

Yep...this is not gender specific~~


Suppletitties replies on 10/8/2020 1:18 pm:
whatever happen to people just sayin' my bad.

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