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When do you give up
I had a friend tell me that if things aren’t changing for what I deem different and the same thing keeps happening then I need to change e the way I do thing

Relationships do continue on after 4-6 weeks. So what am I doing. Somewhere I start to chase them. So I feel them pulling away. Ok easy don’t. As hard as I want to text or call. I can’t do it.

Not answering a text so fast. Let them wait
They make you wait.

Jumping too fast in bed.

I just start to be myself and believe that he’ll I re as log could be dating someone. And the carpet is pulled out from under. So I don’t let myself be comfortable. Don’t be so fast to show all my sides Of how I feel if I do. If I do get ghosted I not to send
text to him to be a bitch. Passive aggressive not good. I don’t like to be kept hanging because the other person is chicken to tell the other why.

Don’t let them send you bread crumbs. If you are going enough to fuck you deserve someone who wants to date you also. Don’t feel pressured into anything you dont want to do.
If he stops talking to you because you didn’t send a naked picture. Girls he is a jerk and we can do better. It could hurt not to see him again. But if you are
scared about being dumped. Don’t be. I am better than that I love myself and anyone not ready to be respectful to me. Then I’ll leave first That round be a new goohiooy. .
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Casper the friendly ghost
Posted:Jan 3, 2020 12:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2020 10:52 pm

So about last year spring summer time. Talking to a guy, seemed nice, texted you until I got sick. Then just sort of disappeared. I figured it was my heart failure and he didn’t want to be bothered. He resurfaced around October-November. Thus time we go to dinner had a great time at least I think so but my games been off. Text a couple more hours after we get to our different homes. The next day I’m getting one to two word answers. Oh no spider sense kicking in. My the second day nothing. god the guy ghosted me again. Thus is after he asked me to leave a comment on his profile picture. He didn’t have any. Then today after two weeks MIA. He views my profile. Know rightfully I’m mad but derp down I’m bad at myself for trusting someone opening up and sharing. Guys this above is why girls today are closed off. Treat your dates with respect if you don’t want to see them. Just tell them saves a lot of hurt.

PS. Sometimes we don’t listen even if you tell us. He are dumb and need to learn things too
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New Year New Me
Posted:Dec 28, 2019 10:18 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2022 4:39 pm
Going over some comments as of late. And you guys are right get a different outcome I need change the way I’m doing somethings. So with that said. Make out your resolutions for the new year and let’s here them.

1. No more texting anyone just because I’m bored
2. Be a nicer person
3. Do this dating thing the complete opposite and no dates until February. I need regroup

Good Luck everyone
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Why is this so hard ??
Posted:Dec 28, 2019 1:27 am
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2020 4:46 am

Being divorced three years now. It’s not getting any easier. Had a dinner the other night and was able to get some honest answers from a gentleman. When us gals say we don’t want a hookup but let’s met see if we click and go from there. You guys mostly agree then the challenge begins.

So question here is. Is this true?? How fast can I bed her?? I can change her mind once she see how great I am. Hell I bought her dinner. If she didn’t want it she wouldn’t have those kind of pictures on her profile

Looking for to your thoughts on this. Both guys and gals what’s you feelings on this subject and what internal rules do you go by.
What’s your opinion??
Posted:Dec 27, 2019 3:03 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2020 3:49 am

So I’ve been wondering for awhile now the reasons Botha ’s do the following things. Your input much appreciated

Ghosting: Before you met in person and texted.

I do this . Mainly I’m not interested haven’t met you and honestly don’t feel I need explain it.

Ghosting after meeting: I’m the type that needs closure so be ghosted after meeting in person is rude as a adult

I haven’t done this and have told them why

No picture on profile: mind goes married looking for fun and doesn’t want get caught. They don’t think they are nice looking. I have had a picture always in any of mine

Asking for dirty pictures: I haven’t asked I think it’s rude time I have is if I’m that person

Sent them pictures: I have. Had low self esteem and thought the way he was going keep talking was them. NOTE: guys don’t dick pics without asking.

Looking forward your answers

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