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The age old age question....  

NewHere4Kink 48F  
687 posts
1/16/2021 9:25 am
The age old age question....

I’m almost 50.... as I over my “flirts “... “hotlist” notifications and messages I noticed something odd. I had pause and myself because, as a woman ’s been alive nearly half a century... I’m surprised by reaction a 19-39 year old’s interest...

I have a hard time reconciling the fact that yes... even though someone is half my age or younger, they are still adults... mature... and obviously quite capable of knowing what they want (or desire) and going after it...
My question you dear reader.... again is .... not the prior “is age just a number “ but... how do I move beyond that line of thinking? 🤔

Thanks for reading and your opinions! 🥰😘😁

Just don’t think about it...
Sex doesn’t care about age.... why should you?.....
I struggle with this issue as well...
It never occurred to me to question it....
Other.... (please explain)...

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69ereatwetpussy 58M
4610 posts
1/16/2021 10:56 am

so we are going younger with this
im 10 over you that's about my limit.
for if I see someone 1/2 my age ild feel like its could be my child age. if had any.
to have a relationship with.
now for straight out sex well ill have to think about it what she has to offer.

NewHere4Kink 48F  
167 posts
1/16/2021 12:32 pm

I can definitely relate to that. I also don’t have kids so I think back to when I used to babysit other people’s kids. If they’re that much younger it just seems odd to me.

Thank you!

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Brownie202 64F
2030 posts
1/16/2021 12:56 pm

Can't help. To me age is more then a number. Nothing wrong if older women like younger. I do not but some don't care. A few repeatedly try. Guess they think they can wear me down. No man has been able to. Just like the couples who believe I don't mean no couples. Can't forget the attached men who refuse to believe I can't mean them.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

NewHere4Kink replies on 1/16/2021 3:49 pm:
Well... I agree with you. It’s not flattering when people just...don’t...accept....NO! It’s a HUGE time waster to have to keep saying no or simply delete messages. There are only so many hours in a day! Hours that can be spent pursuing quality entertainment/companionship!
Thank you! 🤗

classicalrebel4 65M  
1614 posts
1/16/2021 2:27 pm

I still like looking at attractive young women but can't imagine it going beyond that for multiple reasons. Like health differences, topics we are both interested in, or activities besides sex that we could do together. Some things are best left unexplored.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.

NewHere4Kink replies on 1/16/2021 3:52 pm:
I’ve been there. If one wants more than sex... like conversations... an 18 year old would have to be pretty knowledgeable about events that took place before they were born (many of which hold great nostalgic value for me) to even begin to comprehend! Thank you!

NewHere4Kink 48F  
167 posts
1/16/2021 3:55 pm

🤔 I think I’ve read about that... lost youth! Nah... I’ll forego that new fuck smell for someone with whom I can hold meaningful conversations and cuddle 🥰. Thank you! 👍🏽

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Cumfeelmm643 51M/50F  

1/16/2021 5:23 pm

I am a female and prefer an older male.

Massass1963 57M
966 posts
1/16/2021 6:38 pm

Age may not just be a number. Still, I think how one has taken care of themselves, along with if they still have a satisfactory sex drive can keep them appealing to the opposite sex longer than we might think. Stereotypes can sometimes come into play, as well. Generally, I have limited my range of age to women as young as 40 to upwards of 65. It isn't that an older lady would be totally discounted. It just is that it seems most profiles beyond that seem to be looking for something other than fwb...usually more companionship oriented or committed relationship. I am actually okay the companionship (that is the "F" part of the FW, but I need to get the "B" somewhere! LOL
There are some older profiles that seem to be all what I want, and I don't stick to my age limit (cupid settings) strictly.
For younger than 40, I just find the immaturity, in some cases, or the feeling they are too close to my daughter's age a turn off. Add to that the fact that when I was in my 30s I had zero interest in a woman over 50, makes it hard for me to believe a woman in her 30s would be sincerely interested in a man over 50. If she was, I might wonder about motives.

nystofmind69 60M
80 posts
1/16/2021 6:42 pm

Great questing Lady Kink......It really comes down to what turns you on and off. If its about an ongoing relationship then the lack of life experience might be an important criteria missing but if its just for passing fun and the experience of the moment age might actually be a motivating factor. In the long run age is just like any other criteria (hairy or bald, short or tall, etc)

I have been told by a younger lover that she likes that an older man knows how to take his time and with a lady more my age she occasional enjoyed the carnal passion and reckless abandon a younger lover offers. Some times you feel like a nut and sometimes you don't! Stay wet & stay well!!

lyavu 47F  
1452 posts
1/16/2021 7:21 pm

Age is nothing but a number . Old or young men are the same

benard69 63M/63F  
5688 posts
1/16/2021 7:31 pm

If age is just a number and ours is higher we must be winning then....

BiggLala 49F  
29383 posts
1/16/2021 9:21 pm

I moved beyond that line of thinking by considering two things; 1-what I seek, and 2-what does he have to offer (or is capable of offering). Am I solely seeking sex, and/or is that all the guy can/is willing to offer. I will accept the latter if the sexual attraction is high.

The youngest man I met from here was 21, I was 42 at the time. He was fairly mature, but he still had the typical earmarks of most males his age. Regardless, the sex with him was better than I had with most men my age. I met that person over 5 years ago, and at a time where I just wanted to enjoy myself. I didn't much concern myself with deeper connections.

NOW, however, there *must* be a connection. I want to have ongoing, non-exclusive companionship, in addition to the sexual attraction. This is not likely to happen with someone my son's age. Anymore, it seems like it's barely likely with a 35 year old. Anyway...though I don't necessarily have a minimum age requirement (for a strictly sexual relationship), I will not have sex with someone who cannot legally buy alcohol. I. JUST. CAN'T!!!

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Lkn4funwith2 55M
1073 posts
1/16/2021 11:00 pm

All you need to be concerned with is legal age. This also applies to men. If an 18-year old man or woman wants to have sex with a much older person, why not make their fantasy a reality? You never know what they can bring to the table.

fashionablegma 77F

1/17/2021 12:59 am

In the most part it is a fantasy for them,but a few are mature enough,sometimes more mature than older men,there is of course attraction to youth,no bad habits in them just yet,great bodies and when out with them a massive ego boost hanging on their arm,despite the negative looks,comments,i just smile at them,not having to be able to have my own children i have no hang ups where that is of concern

bk2465 65M
2 posts
1/17/2021 12:52 pm

Thankfully we all get older, yet if we don't, your dead. I had cancer of the prostate in 1999, prostate had to be removed,so doctor gave me the blue pills, well I saw everything in blue, I didn't like that. Then he he had a thing called Muse, I had to inject it, it blocked the blood flow, made me hard ,but hurt for a few hours afterwards. Cost of Muse was 6 for 50 bucks, by 2012 Muse had gone up to 6 for $500. I heard about a surgery, something new! The cost was over $200,000.00, how my insurance covered it, I don't know? Well now at 70, I am able to be hard, have any action I want, and last as long as I wish. Age really is not a problem sexually, it is not easy to find 30 to 50 year old lady that want to fuck grandpa. But once we get into it ,it's great.for both of us.

Ninjawife 53F
1 post
1/19/2021 12:00 am

I have a lower age limit of my kid's age plus 5. I just won't entertain the idea of anyone younger.

PNWlettinggo 61M
1 post
1/19/2021 11:32 am

That makes two of us who would very gladly forego the new fuck smell for cuddling and meaningful conversations.

male469ing 40M
4 posts
1/19/2021 2:52 pm

The best sex i ever had was with a women twice my age. We fucked till i got engaged to my ex wife then fucked after my divorce for a while.

LordMandrakeJB 64M  
551 posts
1/19/2021 3:54 pm

The age thing is age old. LOL Seriously, I think it stems from the time when women were looking for virile men to breed as well as men looking for younger women who were fertile and could produce a lot of offspring. Thank GAWD that isn't the case anymore.

As for age. For me, It's just a number for the most part. it's more the emotional side. I don't' want to be anyone's daddy, or teacher for that matter. I don't mind sharing new ideas, but it's sharing. At my age, I'm open to 20 either way. As long as it Doesn't go daughter or mommy on the play. But I've also ran into 50 year old's that were 19 emotionally. Not for me.

It's interesting when you mentioned numbers. Flirts and hotlists are a lot here, but the views? For the 1st 15 days of January: 56 views, 33.5 average age, 19 youngest, 51 oldest, and 50 of them were under 40. And not a one of them close enough to play. LOL

How do you get over it? I can't tell you what will work for you. For me, looking at the emotional age is my driving key.

Punkerelli 41M  
47 posts
1/21/2021 6:01 pm

Over 60 is too close to my parent's age. Under 30 is risky for maturity/drama. I really cannot connect with them.

The most fun I've had has been with couple in their mid 40's and 50's.

But in all reality, it's like blondes vs brunettes. It's just preference. If it was just a quick meet for sex, I'd go as low as 21...

TravelingMan524 68M
241 posts
1/22/2021 1:02 am

i have a girlfriend younger than my daughter (45) and no problem but I prefer women in the 30 to 80 range. Younger ones are fun to look at but like a lady with a few miles on her. >>!

BBWjawn 35F
32 posts
1/22/2021 4:16 am

this was a great question

BiSussi 60F
499 posts
1/22/2021 11:32 am

Love your question, but I suspect I live a life outside the norm when it comes to age, so I should keep my thoughts to myself

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sunandmore888 51M
2 posts
1/25/2021 1:40 pm

at the end of the day it is about how the two partners feel with each other. So, give it a try ...

ed6569 50M
107 posts
2/22/2021 4:33 pm

I have nothing to do with ppl younger than me, nothin in common with them other than breating air.

mydiscretefun1 57M  
73 posts
2/23/2021 1:04 pm

if its just sex for a night or weekend then age doesnt play into it for me. just sexual attraction. fwb takes mental attraction plus sexual so thats different. i have had sex with women thirty to sixty and all were fun times so its really just a number for sexual purposes

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