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A Poll for Women - Lingerie  

New2Midlo 51M  
389 posts
11/21/2020 4:45 pm

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A Poll for Women - Lingerie

I freely admit loving my partner dressed in lingerie for the bedroom, whether it be classy and seductive, hot and sexy, or absolutely trashy. Hell, I keep a small cache for spontaneous enjoyment. From conversations I've had with the women I've been intimate with, I've been surprised discover that most women enjoy it just as much as men. Of course, during that period, I was also learning that objectifying a woman, in the proper context of course, was frequently welcome or even desired. (You like when I tell say I enjoy following you into a room because your ass is so amazing?) But I digress. If you follow the logic trail, it all falls into place. I buy something I know my partner will look hot in and she does, my desire for her becomes more raw and urgent, which she can sense. That makes her feel wanted and lusted after. A good time is had by all.

Who buys the lingerie is where some differences arise. Some of the women I've had the pleasure of enjoying did the choosing and purchasing. They enjoyed putting themselves on display as a surprise, for their partner. Others wanted me to pick outfits out for them, or dress them up. However, all of them found my purchasing lingerie for them to be a positive. They indicated it showed thoughtfulness and made them feel special. Plus, it's the perfect touch of dominance to say 'here, put this on'. There was one woman...we'll save that for another time. To me, it's really a win win.

What somewhat shocked me was the number of women who informed me that none of their previous partners dressed them up. When I asked if they'd enjoy a partner doing that, the universal answer was an enthusiastic yes.

So, for the women, I'm curious whether my sample represents the greater population of the fairer sex, on the topic of lingerie. For the men, the takeaway is go buy your woman something sexy. Oh, and stop trying to eat corn chips off her ass; the blue cheese dip is a bit much.
I buy my own, thank you, and your assistance isn't required
I have my own, but welcome you dressing me up
I'll only wear what you pick out for me
The only lingerie I own is what I bought for myself
If my body doesn't turn you on without that crap, too bad

New2Midlo 51M  
508 posts
11/21/2020 4:46 pm

Seems I'm on a roll today...perhaps I'm feeling particularly motivated by an angel on my shoulder

BiggLala 49F  
29426 posts
11/21/2020 8:12 pm

I've never understood the great appeal for lingerie. I mean, sure, I understand it's fun sometime, nice to look at. As a requirement? Nope.

For me, the point is to get/be naked. Thus...lingerie just takes up space...and costs too much money for the amount of time it's actually used.

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author51 58F
110113 posts
11/21/2020 11:32 pm

I have yet to have a man dress me up and not take me anywhere other than to bed..lol. I prefer buying my own because I know my size and style I like.I also know it is not going to stay on for long, so I only have two outfits//Good post...

papis_baby_girl 41F
5397 posts
11/22/2020 2:48 am

I love lingerie but nothing too over the top... like a cute chemise or a cute babydoll.

I feel sexy in cute 'lingerie' type panties and a cute nightie.

I like them whether I'm with a man or not... I dress for me and if he enjoys it too, then double the fun.

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pocogato12 68F  
36358 posts
11/22/2020 5:00 am

Personally, sure it's sexy and alluring even when it's cotton colored bikinis. But damn even Fruit of the Loom is expensive

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EnigmaInitiative 52F
4246 posts
11/22/2020 5:50 am

I have a rather large collection of lingerie, but rarely wear it. It seems most of the men I've been with over the years have been more into the nekkidness.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

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