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Spanky's Drop Box
Posted:Nov 18, 2020 12:39 pm
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2021 12:59 pm
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Yes! Yes you can. You can chat with me here. LOL The setting are set so that whatever you write will remain between us. So drop me a line or two or three... or four?

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My Profile Info
Posted:May 15, 2021 6:57 am
Last Updated:Jun 10, 2021 12:32 pm
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*Profile Information For Those Of You Can Not View Profiles*

Married White
Sexual Orientation: Straight8 1 00%
Looking For: HWP Woman
Birthdate: labor day
Relocate?: No ( Florida maybe)
Ht: 5 ft 8 in
Body Type: slender/fit
Smoker: Non Smoker
Drinking: A Light/Social Drinker
Education: Some grad
Occupation: Retired 20 yr teacher, 20 yr IT admin, 30 yr part-time massage therapist
Race: Caucasian/British-Swiss
Religion: Christian
Have : Empty nester
Want : Happy With What I Have
Manhood: 7in (cut)
Speaks: English
Hair Color: white
Hair Length: very short/shaved
Glasses: Unfortunately, yes
Eye Color: Hazel
Hango uts: lfury tree oh won won /gm
Personality Type: The Growth Teacher
Introduction: Discrete, respectful, a bit of a dom/gentleman. Very physically active. Witty, clean, non-smoker, DDF. I find maturity and intelligence appealing. (intelligence will figure out my contact info) What I find to b exciting? Down-to-earth, ordinary face, killer body.
•I have had one lg relationship. Super mature young lady from Israel.
•I have had one older woman relationship. 2000 miles became an obstacle in the end.
•I like unique.
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ISO FWB Bicycling Female Friend
Posted:Feb 17, 2021 11:49 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2021 6:58 am
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Ya, I'm a senior citizen but don't equate that with dead. I am very physically active, bicycling 40-50miles/day when I'm humping it. Just waiting for warmer weather. I am looking for an activity partner. Maybe that means just going for walks. I do jog but 3 miles is about it for me. This lockdown has brutal. I can travel, even out of state. However, I would much appreciate it if you could host. I love florida but the two day drive down gets old. . . unless I have an entertaining road trip mate. I am in Joliet and love doing the I&M canal from Rock Run to Morris. Looking to find a motel/cabin in southern Illinois to start biking again asap.

This post will have the settings set where only I can read replies. Hope to hear from you.



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Glory of the Mature Woman 12/15
Posted:Dec 15, 2020 2:06 pm
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2021 7:21 am
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Beautiful mature women. I never tire of looking and being visually infatuated.









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How do you handle a sexless marriage?
Posted:Jul 9, 2021 1:52 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2021 8:15 am
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No pun intended but this could turn into a pregnant question. So many different experiences and stories by others who have had or continue in sexless marriages. So a bit about my own. Please share your stories.

My parents married right after WW2. They met in Europe. My mo m didn't come to live with my dad till her m om and sister got visas to come over state side as well. None of them ever became citizens. My mom's father was quite well to do but everything was lost in the war including my grandfather dying.

My dad's m om use to tell how much my m other use to cry when she moved in with my father. At the time it was just a room with my grandparents who lived west of the city on a small rural hog farm. No indoor plumbing or bathroom. My m om was catholic while the in-laws were country Baptist. Oil and water.

My dad was a skirt chaser for as long as I can remember. Even after he finally moved the family to be with him in the big city where he had taken work, my m om use to always shove one of us k ids in the car with him if he ever left the house. If it was bowling night, he'd give us a couple of bucks to get pop/food while he was in the bowling alley bar with his female fellow bowlers.

Now that I find myself in a sexless marriage, not so quick to point the finger at his running around. My m om use to lock herself in the bathroom because she didn't want to have sex. She never coddled us k ids when sick. Hugs and kisses I can't ever remember getting from her. "For better or worse, sickness and health" do we ever really consider the depth of that covenant promise?

It was 2 yrs into my own marriage that my m other-in-law confided in that her had been on medication since she was tw elve for depression. I was/am forever walking on egg shells. The months before the wedding, if her m om left the house she was on top of m e wanting sex. Come honeymoon night all that ended. Sex was maybe twice a month. A couple yrs of later it was holidays if that. Flat chested, when she was breast feeding she actually had boobs but she would never let touch them because it was "dirty." Oral sex once. She didn't like it, either giving or getting. She wanted to be finger f*ucked and would wake m e up when she finally came to bed 2am to be serviced that way. I had to get up at 4 to go to work and she took at least 30-45 min to climax. That was what precipitated sleeping on the front porch couch. I needed my sleep. She was such a light sleeper that I couldn't even roll over without waking her up and then being made to feel guilty for it as if I had done it on purpose. 25-30 yrs I've slept on that same couch on the front porch.

"Cheaper to keep her" is my motto. We separated once when someone sent her an email that I was having an affair. I wasn't but that didn't matter. And it didn't matter to mykids . All you have to be is accused. Guilty even after being proven innocent. Eventually, when I agreed to go to counseling was I allowed back in the house. And eventually the k ids began talking to mee and letting see my grandkids again. That was about 4 yrs ago.

Yes, I had an affair once...but it wasn't prearranged. It just happened. A woman in the very same predicament as myself. OMG, soooo much fun. It was like childhood vacations all over again. It was like college dating. Almost two months of bliss, both in and out of the bedroom. But her husband transferred out of state and that was that.

Now I guess I should stop looking and hoping. I remember Red warning Andy that hope can be a dangerous thing. That it can drive a man insane. I now know the truth of that statement. Porn doesn't interest me. It's just shows me what others have and I do not. Masturbation occurs when the frustration gets to where I have no other outlet.

Over the years people have asked, why do I stay. Just divorce her. You deserve to be happy. But I have experienced alienation from my family. At this point in life, its the k ids and grandkids that give meaning and bring happiness. What greater pleasure than to have a grandchild run when she sees you and wraps her arms around you and tells you how much she has missed you and loves you? Worth every bit of living in a sexless marriage. What more can I say? And yet "I hope the ocean is as blue as it is in my dreams."
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Pretending to give, intending to receive
Posted:Jul 9, 2021 12:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 12:47 am
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A LOT of pretenders on here. I shake my head in disgust and sorrow the stage 4 cancer that's killing our America. This when I am glad to older. I grew up in a great country where neighbors talked to neighbors, where people actually went to work to earn the to for things. Now it seems like everyone has their hand wanting to be given everything. This administration is killing small business because no one wants to work when the government is giving them "free" .

I am not posting to make a political statement. I am posting because so many of the profiles on here are scammers and gold diggers. Whatever happened to meeting up and just enjoying the company of each other?
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The Hero
Posted:Mar 9, 2021 7:43 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 12:47 am
5297 Views
I had never heard of this movie till I saw it on utube. It is a bittersweet movie from what clips I have viewed. The young woman/older man relationship. Something I find myself pondering from time to time. Bogart & McCall made it work. I have enjoy such relationships online for brief periods of time. Whether they were who they said they were could be debated. However, I found the exchanges both interesting and challenging. There is no getting around it. Age changes the way you look at the world and hopefully, how you treat others.

I like this clip at youtu.be/o2gmatNTH1Y "A thing for old guys scene"
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Not all moments of intimacy.....
Posted:Feb 22, 2021 6:29 am
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2021 6:32 am
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Not all moments of intimacy are sexual. Many times they are simply moments of mutual nurturance.

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The older woman's body
Posted:Jan 11, 2021 12:44 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2021 7:45 am
6906 Views
I saw an article the other day about how rarely, if ever, men consider what women go through when having a baby. How it affects her body for 9 months and then the changes that remain afterwards. Most men know about the mood swings and sleeping habits changing. However, there are also other things, such as tooth decay, bone density loss, stretched skin that doesn't always go back, especially after multiple births, etc. And then there is the delivery itself. It is stressful and dangerous both to the mother as well as the .

Afterwards there are varying degrees of weight gain, tummy stretch, hair loss in one area and hair gain in others. For some women they easily get back being fit and trim while others are physically prone obesity and low self-esteem. I have always said the hardest job in the world is being a single mother. All that is involved in that out coupled with the physical and mental drama she had/has deal with just the pregnancy.

These are not issues with me. Battle scars are nothingto be ashamed of. Not everyone is going fit into a size 7 dress after having . Things are going sag a little more. But that doesnt mean she is less beautiful, less attractive, less alluring. Personally as I have matured, so have my tastes. Maturing involves the ability discern the difference between what looks go and what actually is good. Not all that glitters is of gold!


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You'll Poke Your Eye Out....
Posted:Jan 6, 2021 5:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2021 6:13 am
6163 Views
I'd love see this under a satin blouse.

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Glory of the Mature Woman #8
Posted:Dec 14, 2020 5:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2020 7:35 am
6722 Views
Ah, women. Why do I never grow tired of looking at you? Where is my attractive woman friend?









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Glory of the Mature Woman #7
Posted:Dec 13, 2020 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 12:47 am
6697 Views
Beautiful pictures of beautiful woman. I am iso the real thing. O where O where could they be?









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Glory of the Mature Woman #6
Posted:Dec 13, 2020 9:13 am
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2020 9:19 am
6186 Views
Always in search of. Never finding. The glory of a mature woman.








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