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7Diogenes 101M
655 posts
9/30/2020 9:19 pm
A Not-So-Secret Admirer?


An interesting chain of events has happened over the last few days. I would like to relate the timeline of the events and then ask a few questions.

On September 27, 2020, a fellow blogger contacted me through my private mailbox and asked me to explain a point I had made in one of my posts, they didn't understand the context. I gave the timeline to them, starting with the fact that the whole thing was started by a comment that another completely different blogger had made on one of my posts. The particular blogger that made the comment has since left the site but left their blog active.

Later that same day I visited the inactive member's blog to see who had visited lately as I have periodically done since she made the comment on my blog. My username was the only one that had been showing up on the "Recent Visitors" list as of late but I did notice earlier that a certain user had visited on or around the date, August 2, 2020, as did a number of the "usual suspects" that had seen my post and the comments.

On September 27th, almost two months after my original post and the instigating comment, the same day the fellow blogger contacted me, that same certain user appeared as had visited the since departed member's blog. Of course, the recent visitor's list does not time-stamp recent visitor's visits so there is no way for me, a standard member, to find out the exact time the visit had been made (before or after my response to the fellow blogger) but because I am inherently suspicious, it seems a bit too coincidental to have that certain user visit the exact same day that I replied to the inquisitive fellow blogger in my private mailbox.

I might note here, that the latest previous date on the Recent Visitor's List was August 24, 2020, 34 days earlier, by an uninvolved person.

Since then, I have been the only visitor to the other blog that shows up on the list since that certain person's visit on the 27th. Today is the 30th. That certain user visits my blog and profile daily, sometimes two and three times a day. They have not visited (at least by record of the Recent Visitors) the other blog in three or four days.

I also noticed that the "Last Updated" date-time stamp on the other blog updates itself to the current date and time that I visit. It does not do that on any of the other blogs that I visit.

Does anyone have any idea what could be going on here?

Is it possible for non-employees/members of the site to read private mail-boxes?

Or is this all coincidental with the probability of 0.000001%?


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7Diogenes 101M
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9/30/2020 9:20 pm

Just because I'm paranoid doesn't mean they're not after me .....

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jajo696 65F
2725 posts
10/1/2020 11:36 am

It does seem rather odd. I hope you get some ideas....with 190 views and no comments....seems like other folks havent a clue either. The site gets more n more questionable as time goes on. Hmmmnnnn ~~


7Diogenes replies on 10/1/2020 8:34 pm:
I think it's more the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about. Hand in hand with my "some people here are more equal than others".

Tmptrzz 58F
89077 posts
10/1/2020 1:07 pm

It does seem a bit odd, but not unusual for sure. It could be a site glitch as there is a lot of those going on. And in saying that, I think it's better to go with your gut instinct about what you think is happening. If that makes sense because our guts are usually spot on about things..

I hope you enjoy your Thursday..

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7Diogenes replies on 10/1/2020 8:35 pm:
I know exactly what is going on. You do too. No one wants to address it.

mamacita38dd 42F
59086 posts
10/1/2020 2:33 pm

Who knows anymore on here... people aren't who they say they are we know that.

I think if a non employee/member is hacking into your private messages that is a issue on a grand scale, but i would put my money on that person is somehow associated with this site. All things are revealed in time my friend

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7Diogenes replies on 10/1/2020 8:38 pm:
I don't think it's hacking. It's access through friendship under the guise of advocacy. Hypocrisy at it's finest. All we need to do is treat each other with respect as I peruse your private mailbox.

BiggLala 48F  
29059 posts
10/1/2020 4:44 pm

Is it possible for non-employees/members of the site to read private mail-boxes?
-I don't THINK so. Rather, I cannot figure how a non-employee/member can access someone else's private post. Assuming the post owner employed the proper post settings, of course.

I'd say employees of the site can, but I'm guess you know that, and they'd have access to *any* blog post. With that, I'd hope they wouldn't access the post without the member's knowledge/permission, like if they had to resolve a technical issue.

This is certainly curious, but could all be coincidence.

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7Diogenes replies on 10/1/2020 8:43 pm:
I'd guess special access via some privileged relationship. Too many stars lined up to be a coincidence in my opinion. Another case of glaring hypocrisy.

Only_one_14 51F
1669 posts
10/1/2020 6:55 pm

Who’s on 1st
What’s on 2nd
I don’t know on 3rd
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7Diogenes replies on 10/1/2020 8:32 pm:
Cliff Notes: Private Mailbox is an oxymoron.

7Diogenes replies on 10/3/2020 6:42 am:
You're just mad because I called you an "uninvolved person" that visited on August 24, 2020 on THE LIST.

anastasia666 42F  
2124 posts
10/2/2020 6:40 am

Hello Dio,

Happy Friday...I am sure you will enjoy this but a very dear Friend/member of this site and a welcome visitor to your blog ..sent me a message over at FB saying perhaps this blog was written and directed at Me..I said, "Me ? How can that be ? Dio did say I was welcome to visit but perhaps he changed his mind. "

Soo, I came back and re read between the lines..The blog in question you have visited and had as you said, private communication with was started about 2 months ago..right around the time some of the abuse and insults started..then the handle that approached you wrote an abusive blog that was reported by members and the profile has not been seen since..Of course this is a mystery but I have heard the handle is a fake one and belongs to another of your guests. It will be very simple for the site to look at the handles in question and see if members are correct about this.

As far as your " breach " you are reporting here..Might i suggest you contact Customer Service and the Abuse depts with your " accusations " and they will be very happy to investigate on your behalf. In fact if you need me to call them about you again, I can do that. Very Happy to Help.

I did in Fact return to that other blog to make a copy of what she/he said in their abusive post. When collecting evidence for a report on the abuse issues it is always good to have it all in one place before someone deletes it.

If in fact this is your attempt to blame me for your " breach " all I shall say is ..Knowing this is so very important to you that when the site tells you no one breached your account You will create another blog and share this truth. Or is it more fun to try to incriminate someone who has , Dare I say it, treated you with " RESPECT " that you, yourself , have denied others ??

Once more, if a member is not welcome here ..Please let them know or block them..

Thank You for Your Time & Take Care & Stay Well, Safe & Healthy,

Ana6

PS :a quick snip of the blog visitor list..My Oh my, How I do recognize a lot of those handle names.

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He made me pretty
He made me smart


7Diogenes 101M
1136 posts
10/2/2020 12:01 pm

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Hello Dio,

    Happy Friday...I am sure you will enjoy this but a very dear Friend/member of this site and a welcome visitor to your blog ..sent me a message over at FB saying perhaps this blog was written and directed at Me..I said, "Me ? How can that be ? Dio did say I was welcome to visit but perhaps he changed his mind. "

    Soo, I came back and re read between the lines..The blog in question you have visited and had as you said, private communication with was started about 2 months ago..right around the time some of the abuse and insults started..then the handle that approached you wrote an abusive blog that was reported by members and the profile has not been seen since..Of course this is a mystery but I have heard the handle is a fake one and belongs to another of your guests. It will be very simple for the site to look at the handles in question and see if members are correct about this.

    As far as your " breach " you are reporting here..Might i suggest you contact Customer Service and the Abuse depts with your " accusations " and they will be very happy to investigate on your behalf. In fact if you need me to call them about you again, I can do that. Very Happy to Help.

    I did in Fact return to that other blog to make a copy of what she/he said in their abusive post. When collecting evidence for a report on the abuse issues it is always good to have it all in one place before someone deletes it.

    If in fact this is your attempt to blame me for your " breach " all I shall say is ..Knowing this is so very important to you that when the site tells you no one breached your account You will create another blog and share this truth. Or is it more fun to try to incriminate someone who has , Dare I say it, treated you with " RESPECT " that you, yourself , have denied others ??

    Once more, if a member is not welcome here ..Please let them know or block them..

    Thank You for Your Time & Take Care & Stay Well, Safe & Healthy,

    Ana6

    PS :a quick snip of the blog visitor list..My Oh my, How I do recognize a lot of those handle names.

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I did in Fact return to that other blog to make a copy of what she/he said in their abusive post. When collecting evidence for a report on the abuse issues it is always good to have it all in one place before someone deletes it.

I'm sure the members that reported the abuse are comforted by the fact that it only took 56 days for you to collect evidence for a report on the abuse issues.

What would prompt you to collect evidence after 56 days? Why not 52 days? Why not a month? Why not 2 weeks? Why not one day? Why not one hour for such a critical issue?

Since you're here, I'll just ask for the record. Do you have, or access to person(s) that do, the ability to read blog posts and any comments that have the comments marked "I want to preview all responses before they show up" in the blog post settings?

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anastasia666 42F  
2124 posts
10/2/2020 11:35 pm

    Quoting 7Diogenes:
    I did in Fact return to that other blog to make a copy of what she/he said in their abusive post. When collecting evidence for a report on the abuse issues it is always good to have it all in one place before someone deletes it.

    I'm sure the members that reported the abuse are comforted by the fact that it only took 56 days for you to collect evidence for a report on the abuse issues.

    What would prompt you to collect evidence after 56 days? Why not 52 days? Why not a month? Why not 2 weeks? Why not one day? Why not one hour for such a critical issue?

    Since you're here, I'll just ask for the record. Do you have, or access to person(s) that do, the ability to read blog posts and any comments that have the comments marked "I want to preview all responses before they show up" in the blog post settings?
Dear Dio,

Hello..Thank you for your swift reply. I appreciate it. I would have to go over my notes as to the first report on that handle..I noticed a comment they made and something did not feel right and that was how I found the blog with the abusive post.

No, NO members have access to any posts, emails , etc other than their own . I alerted the legal dept to your questions about this so they could investigate it further for you. I do know that employees who work in the legal, abuse & fraud depts can look at everything on site..even the rolls of the chat rooms.Especially if there are reports of abuse or threats.

I have found on my blog that checking posts before they show up on my blog is a great way to keep the blog on point & not allow any member to use my blog to abuse another member. It might keep people from posting to a blog but it also keeps the integrity of your blog intact.

I do not know the full extent of what happened to your inbox or this blog but it is obvious it is very concerning to you. Hence the reason I alerted the legal dept this am. If I can be of any further help please do not hesitate to reach out.

Happy Weekend To You & Your Family & Stay Safe & Healthy,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


mamacita38dd 42F
59086 posts
10/3/2020 2:59 am

    Quoting 7Diogenes:
    I did in Fact return to that other blog to make a copy of what she/he said in their abusive post. When collecting evidence for a report on the abuse issues it is always good to have it all in one place before someone deletes it.

    I'm sure the members that reported the abuse are comforted by the fact that it only took 56 days for you to collect evidence for a report on the abuse issues.

    What would prompt you to collect evidence after 56 days? Why not 52 days? Why not a month? Why not 2 weeks? Why not one day? Why not one hour for such a critical issue?

    Since you're here, I'll just ask for the record. Do you have, or access to person(s) that do, the ability to read blog posts and any comments that have the comments marked "I want to preview all responses before they show up" in the blog post settings?
So now apparently it's ok to take a screenshot of your blog without your permission, I thought you couldn't use other members handles (in print or pictures) without there permission 🤔 seems like a clear TOU violation.

No worries Dio I already sent in a report of abuse on this one too, just more evidence how one sided this place can be, this site needs to put a end to this nonsense or face the consequences...

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7Diogenes replies on 10/3/2020 6:56 am:
Thank you but you're wasting your time.

onelastchan00 51F  
2236 posts
10/3/2020 4:52 am

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    So now apparently it's ok to take a screenshot of your blog without your permission, I thought you couldn't use other members handles (in print or pictures) without there permission 🤔 seems like a clear TOU violation.

    No worries Dio I already sent in a report of abuse on this one too, just more evidence how one sided this place can be, this site needs to put a end to this nonsense or face the consequences...
Since the post came out that was Titled DONT QUOTE ME im very carefule who I quote but im sure I may Quote u, lol
Yes I see a terms breach as well, considering my name is on that screenshot i did NOT give the poster permission to use my handle in any way shape or form
In fact back in late Feb early March i noticed one member visiting my NEWLY created blog, for my OWN reasons I blocked this member across the board, a few days later i made my FIRST ever report because i seen a recent veiw by SAID member on my blog the problem was resolved in minutes😊
I would also like to point out any referance to me having more than one active profile at one time,,, not now and not ever have i EVER used more than one profile , YES i have had different profiles over the years but when i leave the site for Whatever reason that profile gets deleted and never accesed again
Which brings up another point, since one of my vidz was truly compromused and given to another to use in a malicious manner this also means that ourpics are also able to be jakked and used for anothers FAKE profile
Site clearly has no consience of who or what gets a hold of our content which is very offensive , Ive said it before and will say it again show me proof of another profile here that is controlled by me i hardly have time for this one
Theres ither members that have more than one account going here as we speak, one has even admitted it many times but those accounts are still active
Sorry for the rant Thelma
Maybe i should sign this quote with one of the names a protected blogger gave me since shes above all the rules but dont worry i will report the breach as well not that it will help but its the princible.. thing2😡😡

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7Diogenes 101M
1136 posts
10/3/2020 6:08 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Dear Dio,

    Hello..Thank you for your swift reply. I appreciate it. I would have to go over my notes as to the first report on that handle..I noticed a comment they made and something did not feel right and that was how I found the blog with the abusive post.

    No, NO members have access to any posts, emails , etc other than their own . I alerted the legal dept to your questions about this so they could investigate it further for you. I do know that employees who work in the legal, abuse & fraud depts can look at everything on site..even the rolls of the chat rooms.Especially if there are reports of abuse or threats.

    I have found on my blog that checking posts before they show up on my blog is a great way to keep the blog on point & not allow any member to use my blog to abuse another member. It might keep people from posting to a blog but it also keeps the integrity of your blog intact.

    I do not know the full extent of what happened to your inbox or this blog but it is obvious it is very concerning to you. Hence the reason I alerted the legal dept this am. If I can be of any further help please do not hesitate to reach out.

    Happy Weekend To You & Your Family & Stay Safe & Healthy,

    Ana6
Your non-answer to my question, "Do you have access to person(s) that have the ability to read blog posts and any comments that have the comments marked 'I want to preview all responses before they show up" in the blog post settings?' told me everything I needed to know.

Thank you for convincing me that members who do not conform to your ideals do not have a reasonable expectation of privacy with regard to private mailboxes.

Thank you for posting the image of the recent viewers list of that blog that not only corroborated the timeline outlined in my post but lent further credibility to my post with my "usual suspects" statement and your follow-up "My Oh my, How I do recognize a lot of those handle names" quip.

I trust that the intelligence of the readers of this post and these ensuing comments will allow them to come to their own conclusions.

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anastasia666 42F  
2124 posts
10/3/2020 6:44 am

    Quoting 7Diogenes:
    Your non-answer to my question, "Do you have access to person(s) that have the ability to read blog posts and any comments that have the comments marked 'I want to preview all responses before they show up" in the blog post settings?' told me everything I needed to know.

    Thank you for convincing me that members who do not conform to your ideals do not have a reasonable expectation of privacy with regard to private mailboxes.

    Thank you for posting the image of the recent viewers list of that blog that not only corroborated the timeline outlined in my post but lent further credibility to my post with my "usual suspects" statement and your follow-up "My Oh my, How I do recognize a lot of those handle names" quip.

    I trust that the intelligence of the readers of this post and these ensuing comments will allow them to come to their own conclusions.
Dear Dio,

Thank you for your reply . Since most members who know me, know I know the Owner/Boss of this site I felt it would be redundant to say his name yet again . I do know people who have worked in various depts of this site. No one I know or Knew who work/worked for this site have engaged in any kind of breach of your blog or inbox.

As I said, I contacted the Legal dept and Andrew and asked them to look into this for you. I am sure you have done the same thing ..I am sure they will get to the bottom of this for you.

Your readers & the members of this site can believe or chose to not believe what they like. The evidence will prove it itself in the end. That is why since you are so consumed by this now and accusing me or employees of this , I will look forward to your BIG blog post exonerating those of you have wronged.

Happy Weekend To You & Your Family,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


7Diogenes 101M
1136 posts
10/3/2020 9:36 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Dear Dio,

    Thank you for your reply . Since most members who know me, know I know the Owner/Boss of this site I felt it would be redundant to say his name yet again . I do know people who have worked in various depts of this site. No one I know or Knew who work/worked for this site have engaged in any kind of breach of your blog or inbox.

    As I said, I contacted the Legal dept and Andrew and asked them to look into this for you. I am sure you have done the same thing ..I am sure they will get to the bottom of this for you.

    Your readers & the members of this site can believe or chose to not believe what they like. The evidence will prove it itself in the end. That is why since you are so consumed by this now and accusing me or employees of this , I will look forward to your BIG blog post exonerating those of you have wronged.

    Happy Weekend To You & Your Family,

    Ana6
You don't know how relieved I am to hear that your friends are investigating ...

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anastasia666 42F  
2124 posts
10/5/2020 2:45 am

    Quoting 7Diogenes:
    You don't know how relieved I am to hear that your friends are investigating ...
Dear Dio,

Oh I am so glad to hear that..I will be sure to pass along your generous & respectful words for all the hard working employees. I am sure they will appreciate it very much. I know I do.

Have a Great Week To Be & Stay Safe/Healthy & Safe,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


7Diogenes 101M
1136 posts
10/5/2020 5:21 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Dear Dio,

    Oh I am so glad to hear that..I will be sure to pass along your generous & respectful words for all the hard working employees. I am sure they will appreciate it very much. I know I do.

    Have a Great Week To Be & Stay Safe/Healthy & Safe,

    Ana6
They're smart people. They know who is putting their integrity at risk.

And hey, since you visit my blog a couple of times every day, do you mind posting the case number, incident number, whatever? And then an update or progress report on the investigation? I've never had any contact with anyone at the site so I don't know who to get that information from. You don't have to post an update every time you visit, that would get out of hand. Just once a day, posted here would be great. That way we can all follow along.

Thanks.

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anastasia666 42F  
2124 posts
10/6/2020 3:51 am

    Quoting 7Diogenes:
    They're smart people. They know who is putting their integrity at risk.

    And hey, since you visit my blog a couple of times every day, do you mind posting the case number, incident number, whatever? And then an update or progress report on the investigation? I've never had any contact with anyone at the site so I don't know who to get that information from. You don't have to post an update every time you visit, that would get out of hand. Just once a day, posted here would be great. That way we can all follow along.

    Thanks.
Dear Dio,

Good Morning..I hope you are having a great week..

You know I know they do...Because No one here is putting any employees or their integrity at risk.

I am sure You have reported this right ? Not just me on your behalf ? I mean you wrote this blog post wanting to bring attention to your " theory " or "Belief " So wouldn't you have the case number ? If you have ever followed The Site Support Blog you would have seen myself & others bringing up issues for other member and Support is so great & they tell you that due to privacy concerns they can only tell the member with the issue..I have no issues on site but you do..Do you want to post your case number and the resolution ?

Oh you are soooooo sweeet...YOU noticed me..well I have this post marked on my watch list and if there is reply like this with you quoting me, it is only right that I come back and reply...to not reply would seem very rude..and by now you must have noticed..I do NOT give great rude..

Since this means soooo very much to you I will bring this up with the abuse dept and ask them to contact you personally..It wouldn't be right for anyone at HQ to talk to me about this case of yours...Now if I filed a case and your name was on it, than they would be talking to me about how this all happened with You and what you had done to warrant a report/case.

Happy To help you and when I hear something ( if I do ) to maintain your privacy I will add it to your private in box on your blog and you have my permission to do with it as you see fit.

Thank you for always making me feel so special ..Thank you for visiting my Blog that one time & Thank You for noticing Me..I am always happy to help anyone in need or point them in the right direction..

Btw, on the Watched Blog list..if you watch a blog or a post and then you go to the blog page , if you had replied to a watch post , it is highlighted in yellow letting you know that a new post or reply has been added...If you follow the blog..it is the same thing..a new blog post is highlighted in yellow..If you'd prefer that I no longer watch your blog or posts than just please let me know and I'd be very happy to oblige you in leaving.

After all, You never want to stay to long at a party you were not invited to.

Happy Tues & Stay Well,Safe,Happy and Take Care ..for You & Your wonderful family,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


7Diogenes 101M
1136 posts
10/6/2020 5:34 am

    Quoting anastasia666:
    Dear Dio,

    Good Morning..I hope you are having a great week..

    You know I know they do...Because No one here is putting any employees or their integrity at risk.

    I am sure You have reported this right ? Not just me on your behalf ? I mean you wrote this blog post wanting to bring attention to your " theory " or "Belief " So wouldn't you have the case number ? If you have ever followed The Site Support Blog you would have seen myself & others bringing up issues for other member and Support is so great & they tell you that due to privacy concerns they can only tell the member with the issue..I have no issues on site but you do..Do you want to post your case number and the resolution ?

    Oh you are soooooo sweeet...YOU noticed me..well I have this post marked on my watch list and if there is reply like this with you quoting me, it is only right that I come back and reply...to not reply would seem very rude..and by now you must have noticed..I do NOT give great rude..

    Since this means soooo very much to you I will bring this up with the abuse dept and ask them to contact you personally..It wouldn't be right for anyone at HQ to talk to me about this case of yours...Now if I filed a case and your name was on it, than they would be talking to me about how this all happened with You and what you had done to warrant a report/case.

    Happy To help you and when I hear something ( if I do ) to maintain your privacy I will add it to your private in box on your blog and you have my permission to do with it as you see fit.

    Thank you for always making me feel so special ..Thank you for visiting my Blog that one time & Thank You for noticing Me..I am always happy to help anyone in need or point them in the right direction..

    Btw, on the Watched Blog list..if you watch a blog or a post and then you go to the blog page , if you had replied to a watch post , it is highlighted in yellow letting you know that a new post or reply has been added...If you follow the blog..it is the same thing..a new blog post is highlighted in yellow..If you'd prefer that I no longer watch your blog or posts than just please let me know and I'd be very happy to oblige you in leaving.

    After all, You never want to stay to long at a party you were not invited to.

    Happy Tues & Stay Well,Safe,Happy and Take Care ..for You & Your wonderful family,

    Ana6
I have not nor do I intend to file a report.

As is usual for my posts, the comments have proved more informative/entertaining than the post itself.

Thanks for playing.

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anastasia666 42F  
2124 posts
10/7/2020 3:11 am

    Quoting 7Diogenes:
    I have not nor do I intend to file a report.

    As is usual for my posts, the comments have proved more informative/entertaining than the post itself.

    Thanks for playing.
Dear Dio,

Well..That is some very interesting news..You accused employees, Me and whoever else.You claim you were hacked/breached and blamed the employees at HQ ? Wow..Ok, Not sure what " game " you were playing but some members chose to believe you..some did not.

I will let the employees/site know you were making this up for your own enjoyment. I hope it made you happy.

Have an awesome week..

Stay Safe & Healthy & All My Best to You & Your Family,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


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