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The Language of Empowerment pt5  

CandExo 47M/53F
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4/13/2021 5:58 pm
The Language of Empowerment pt5


Empowerment dynamics aren't static, there charge can change because interactions are always in flux in our environment and though our own psychology is an important part of the process, its our interactions with the environment that plays the most critical role in shaping our sense of self and feelings of worth. There are reasons for this: our own psychology is made up from our sense of self, and that in part is shaped by the selves interactions and conditionings within the environment, also and more importantly, while we may strive for and even achieve consistency in our psychology, the entire environment and the nature of our interaction with it are constantly changing. Using the language of empowerment instilled with empathy and loving kindness enables a synergy between our intentions and actions that builds integrity through Constance of intention and action in the face of change.

In addition creating an increase in our sense of purpose and autonomy, we feel an increase in knowledge and awareness of both our self and others when we practice the language of empowerment, it truly empowers because it taps into spirits core, the source of all our power. Power is measurable and is both visible and invisible, and its always being felt. Extensions of power are: wealth, property, energy sources, institutional organizations and personality, including roles, both social and class. To have a positive power psychology allows the individual to thrive and humans to flourish, for the individual power has the ability to influence his environment and condition through actions. Our sense of power is connected to our feelings of empowerment, by learning to facilitate empowerment for others, we encourage them to use their power to build, acquire knowledge and awareness of value and with their actions, acquire control over choice and the environment.

The language of empowerment has a threefold dynamic when applied to authentic relationships: a commitment by the individual to be open to seeing themselves through a process of self-reflection, application and attainment. A support<b> group </font></b>of like minded friends, family and or social organizations and institutions that facilitate empowerment and encourage self-reflection, expression and feedbac And finally, a role mentoring teacher/seeker relationship paradigm, where either role can be interchanged, exchanged or reversed, depending on the situation, as part of an education and development program of mutual self-growth, knowledge and intimacy building in authentic relationships.

In its essence, empowerment is a process to gain control over social interactions, our own use of power, and our pursuit of social justice. The language of empowerment demonstrates the power of words to inspire activism, inclusiveness and build unity. Defence mechanisms hinder authenticity and complicate relationships. They're mental manoeuvres done either consciously or unconsciously that distort, falsify, or mislead the pursuit of truth to protect ourselves from real or perceived threats and fears, pain, discomfort or other less than feelings. The by products of this mechanism are lying, backbiting, justification and the use of bait and switch techniques, plus emotionally empowered rationalizations. When the ego gets involved in the defence of perceived threats, the mechanism can project in different ways and can assume /parent role responses, victim/persecutor/saviour games or forms of static action/inaction paradigms of repression, denial, suppression and projection. All of which simply directs others away from our true fears and insecurities.

Static action is when our muscle tension increases but the joint angle remains unchanged so that no mechanical work is done, When the muscle that is our brain in under tension or stress and the direction of our actions through intention doesn't change our feelings or the dynamic remains unchanged or worsens, that is static action. Static inaction is when we don't use our available powers to help ourselves or others through stubbornness or other forms of inaction. From the muscular view of the brain we can also see unity as an eccentric action because it opens and lengthens under tension, whereas hermetic actions produce a tightening and closing of the muscle through concentric action. Relationships are an unavoidable and necessary part of life. Interactions present opportunities to experience varying levels of pleasure and pain, it's the level of intimacy we allow into our relationships that magnifies those feelings.

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