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New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
4/2/2021 4:12 pm

Men in my family never showed emotion - I saw my grandfather cry twice and my emotionally stunted father, never. We were manly men and manly men didn't show emotion or communicate.

Part of me wants to stand up and yell 'tell it like it is, sister!' after reading your blog. Relationships are so much better when you actually talk to one another. I'm still learning though. Someone once posed the question to me of what I needed from a relationship. My response was 'I can ask for things? Who knew?'


generousfun0 24M
8 posts
4/2/2021 4:46 pm

Very true, very few people these days are willing to negotiate, it seems we can't have civilized conversations these days if both parties have opposing views...


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
4/2/2021 5:06 pm

The way we are socialized sucks.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


hardguy0051 72M
503 posts
4/2/2021 7:18 pm

Ya know, this works both ways. It's not just males who play their cards close to their chests. I've had women who said they were looking for a FWB and wound up getting involved, and I've known women who said they were looking for a boyfriend who were really looking for a fuck buddy... and I've known women who didn't know what they were looking for, or were embarrassed or ashamed to admit what they wanted.

It's not just a Man thing anymore.


Ultraviolet_Sol 43M
622 posts
4/2/2021 10:13 pm

I think that is sweet and endearing that you would assert that women just want to make men happy, that making men happy makes women happy.

There is no doubt that the male/female dynamic is characterized by increasing levels of complexity, and this just as a generalization. I think the complexity quotient, if I may call it thus, fluctuates at the the individual level, and fluctuates, individually, within each individual, dependent upon factors that are numerous and complex, as individuals are in a constant state of flux and dynamism.

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