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Does Anyone Read Profiles  

EroticMusings2 59F  
1438 posts
3/8/2021 12:23 pm
Does Anyone Read Profiles

I do seriosuly wonder in<b> profiles </font></b>are actually read most men on this site anymore at all.

I digress, let me explain. I am currently not looking at all for a FWB, or what I affectionly call my lover. I have found a most wonderful man who is my endeared FWB. He sees me as more then a sexual roast. He sees me as a completee woman who is also his friend. We enjoy all aspects of life, and even our private life.

As I have written about before "First do no Harm", that means I also care and ensure that his home life is all well, and we both make adjustments to schedules etc as things come up both seen and surprise one.

But I find it irritating and disrespectful when men keep trying to get with me. Trust me, I am loyal woman. As you know I do have my husbands permission though now he greatly regrets it. But I have needs too, and I havew gone a good 20 years waiting and hoping he would become sexually active until he became impotent. Still we could have enjoyed and played in so many ways, but he would not hear of it.

My lover was just a friend until I decided that he would be a very good match for me , and I liked him in general as a person. I will never write about our private times but lets just say I was very well loved. Shown and told, and made to feel like a complete woman.

So please if you read this and you are wanting to get with me. Don't because all I can offer you right now is friendship.

Keep smiling in the sunlight.

Ann


*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
3/8/2021 12:24 pm

Screaming OH YEAH

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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
3/8/2021 12:35 pm

Viewing that main profile picture likely causes one to forget what is written in profile (or never even read it), and write in hopes that...

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pumpman1961 63M
9 posts
3/8/2021 12:38 pm

Nicely said, but the problem is, a lot of men & women are only standard members, so can only see the 1st couple of lines of your profile.


Bourre2020 61M

3/8/2021 12:43 pm

I do read profiles, which is how I spot fakes. Occasionally I go through their photos to see how many men comment that it's a fake profile. Never many. Either they don't bother reading other comments, or they don't look at the profiles. Surely their English comprehension can't be that atrocious if they do read...

I can only assume that they're lazy, or aren't paid-up members. AgoraCosmopolitan Dating doesn't cost THAT much. Are they afraid that their other half will see the bill show up on their credit card? get a debit card unattached to your joint account and dump money in there as needed. And read the damned profiles

Glad that you've found someone, Ann


randy56192 68M

3/8/2021 1:01 pm

I can't speak to the female Gold members of this site, whether they read profiles or not, as I'm only seeking men. I DO find a certain % of Gold member males on here simply can't be bothered to read profiles and will just troll guys in IM if they're bored. I think "most" Golds do read them or else why do they bother getting a paid membership, but yeah there's a portion that don't cuz they're simply too stupid, immature, and lazy.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
3/8/2021 1:04 pm

No....they dont read em for whatever reasons. If they do.....they feel that they are the exception...and they discredit your words. The feeling is that their needs takes precedence. That right there is a read flag.

I just responded to an email...very nicely. The end of my words were " tsk tsk @ you for ignoring my profile parameters. This person was Gold...so he certainly had the access to read the profile. If he werent gold i would not have added that last piece.

I am super happy that you found your someone...i LOVE those stories. Kudos ~~


funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
3/8/2021 1:16 pm

we have found that most single str8 guys DONT read the profiles or think that what we wrote doesnt apply to them .Its disappointing to see someone viewed your profile and they are str8 , when profile says bi only ,just our 2 cents worth , also to many single guys with no pics who pester people .When they write its hey lets fuck, they never introduce themselves , what schmucks


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
3/8/2021 1:20 pm

    Quoting pumpman1961:
    Nicely said, but the problem is, a lot of men & women are only standard members, so can only see the 1st couple of lines of your profile.
Bull. If they are able to write first it means they are able to read profiles. To many men do not care what is there.i have men say he is not attached and my age. Two requirements. They have a dick picture which is a hard limit of mine. Or he will say into kink which also shows read my profile but he is to young and also wants sex. Profile has be my age be and no sex. Just two examples of the kind of messages from men who read my profile but ignored what they wanted to.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


rroobber 55M
28 posts
3/8/2021 4:36 pm

todo empieza por una amistad


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
3/8/2021 8:14 pm

I read profiles . Most do not read them. I am happy that you have found a very special man. I can not speak for others but I too would like to find that special man.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Blee761 62M  
519 posts
3/9/2021 5:15 am

I also read profiles. It is the only way to tell of potential compatibility, and unfortunately in these days and times, if a users profile is fake.


justme51 72M

3/12/2021 3:45 am

Well said and understand. How ever as naughty as I am married also with an don’t ask don’t tell. I’d love to read your private affairs with your FWB.


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