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justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
1/4/2021 9:52 am

 Despite its temptations, not every arousing connection need consummate in intimacy.

As you point out, other objectives were in play- objectives that could have been compromised if boundaries were blurred with sexy-time. Though not as dire as the potential consequences (legal and financial) of romances with co-workers, it is prudent to maintain a respectful distance in relationships with professional colleagues, clients and contractors.

Sexual desire is ephemeral. The consequences of shoddy or compromised work can be devastating.


NG879190 45M  
73 posts
1/4/2021 8:41 pm

 Excellently written. Conveying the blend of emotions/desires like you described is very tough, and you did so fantastically.

As for the moral of the story: if you can swing your hammer, you should swing your hammer. Barring moral quandary and truly bad timing, missing such an opportunity impacts how confident you are on the next swing. Landing in the friend zone in such a way is a truly a self-inflicted cruelty.


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
1/5/2021 8:38 am

 Professionalism is a rare thing these days. From personal experience, it sucks when professional obligations do not always allow for personal preferences.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
1/6/2021 9:08 am

 Good advice I got early in my career: "It takes a lifetime to build a reputation but a moment to ruin it."

I did have a good break. How was yours?
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
1/8/2021 8:52 am

 Same. Of course, many appreciate the reduced volume levels.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


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