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Adjusting the prefrences  

Culinarymassage 43M
9 posts
6/15/2020 7:30 pm
Adjusting the prefrences


i normally don't do this, but hay it needs to be documented. I am going to tell you how it is, speaking nothing but the truth so help me God. I was raised to have respect for people, no matter what race, age, gender, religious or political group. It some ways it doesn't even have to be the word respect. You can even use the world compassion or decency.

Before i get further into this, i have to first point out that when it comes to trolling, fake accounts, email hacker askers the AgoraCosmopolitan Dating, is slow on the draw. But one mention about some lady making a border line politically incorrect statement. They was all over it. i cant even see the email this lady sent me because AgoraCosmopolitan Dating took it down. Wow, so i guess i must have been justified feeling some type of way because her message to me is gone. But the damage has already been done AgoraCosmopolitan Dating.

Lets get into it shall we. ok. so i am on AgoraCosmopolitan Dating to make friends, have a good time no matter how they come or roll. Because i don't judge people, at least not right of the bat. The site allows you to choose what type of people you want to interact with. its easy as point and click because it ask you. You don't like people with big feet, and short arms, well you can click that option. ""basically"

So how come when i send out the typical hi message, lets be friends. Someone sends me a massage back that says, i don't like the blacks....Omfg, did you just say that. what is the fucking backpage 2020. i was insulted so much, i said something to AgoraCosmopolitan Dating, and it got removed. wow. but when i say, hay this person is just asking for my email, or just wants me to send them presents. i keep seeing them everyday. most likely doing the same shit.

If you read this, i hope it brings some perspective to you.

lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
6/16/2020 12:18 am

Sitting behind the safety of the keyboard does something strange to some people, emboldens them somehow. So they suddenly feel brave and entitled to behave badly towards others.

Racism in any forum is sickening. I'm not disappointed the message was removed, was the profile removed too?

There was some muppet a couple of weeks ago from australia who posted something awful about Mr Floyd. It was pointed out to the site, the post and the person were removed immediately.

What happened to you, I'm not sure how the site could better manage that without vetting absolutely every message that is sent here. Not only do they not have the resources to do that, I think it would probably bring the site to a grinding halt. I'm not condoning or excusing the person who messaged you with that hateful shit, nor am I excusing the site for allowing it. I guess I'm unsure as to how it might be better managed by them.

Racism is learned, if people are open to understanding the impact of their words, they can unlearn it. I hope that the hope and optimism springing from the BLM movement pays off.

Thanks for sharing McCulin. Hope you're well otherwise.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/18/2020 3:35 pm

Racists seem to be crawling out of the woodwork lately everywhere kinda outing themselves as it were. That's fine if you desire to have the world see you
as you truly are. But to openly "attack" as you were is unconscionable and just plain rude. It is not like saying " i dont like eggs" Children are born freeof prejudice. It is a learned horror. I am sorry you were a subject of this nastiness

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