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Blowjobs  

Jennifer21236 41F
30 posts
3/16/2020 12:41 pm
Blowjobs


So let me start by saying I love giving a blowjob to a beautiful cock, I cant imagine not.
I was talking to one of my girlfriends who is still married and she confessed that her husband doesn't allow her to give him a blowjob !! He will go down on her so its not an oral sex things, he just doesnt let her do it.

Am I the only one that thinks this is a little weird?

milk69man69 59M  
90 posts
3/16/2020 2:37 pm

Sounds pretty weird to me Jennifer.


tsn4fun2 48M/46F  
257 posts
3/16/2020 2:43 pm

Hmmmm..... I wonder why he doesn’t... I thought ALL men loved bjs. That’s a new one for me. Yeah, I agree with you on the fact that’s a little weird!


dilf5150 48M

3/16/2020 2:52 pm

That is extremely weird. How can a guy not like a BJ???


Mr00Fun4U 64M

3/16/2020 2:57 pm

It is a bit strange....but I had a buddy of mine that wouldn't let his wife give him blowjobs. He felt that a mother of children shouldn't be sucking cock??

I guess everyone has their issues. Me...nothing quite like oral satisfaction...giving or receiving.

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justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
3/16/2020 3:11 pm

I suspect it is a communication issue. I have had to gently ask a few lovers to not bring their teeth to bear on my tumescent but very sensitive member. I suspect your friend's partner has not found a way to discuss *technique* and has instead elected to take a pass on this most delightful foreplay.

Such inhibitions and failures to communicate are sad and baffling, but all too common. Your direct and forthright discussion of such matters of intimacy deepens your seductiveness.


SxyLatinJazz_4u 50M
157 posts
3/16/2020 3:27 pm

That is really strange. True... maybe he prefers it from men? The only thing I can think of is that she isn't as skilled in it...

Knew one girl who I'll just say her gag reflexes were so bad she would close her mouth afraid of vomitting... but by closing her mouth, she would also use her teeth... yes... either bite down some or the teeth would scrap as well.

Let's just say, she nor her family invested in braces... so her teeth also didnt help the situation either....

But that is like the only reason I could think of. We worked it out some other way but he needs to work out whatever issue. She obviously likes to give a bj, and he shouldn't deny her that


DAriel2797 29M

3/16/2020 3:32 pm

She smokes? Some guys don't like to receive bjs from girls that smoke, that may be a reason, or dunno


Gary545454 65M
635 posts
3/16/2020 3:37 pm

I agree it's weird


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
3/16/2020 4:05 pm

What is the point of being married then?? She putting up with b/s single people go through. Unless, if course, he told his boyfriend the dick belongs to him and he promised to keep wifey off the cock.


hotlover196348 61M
198 posts
3/16/2020 5:41 pm

That sounds weird. He's is getting on the side. 4 sure.


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
3/16/2020 5:47 pm

    Quoting Mr00Fun4U:
    It is a bit strange....but I had a buddy of mine that wouldn't let his wife give him blowjobs. He felt that a mother of children shouldn't be sucking cock??

    I guess everyone has their issues. Me...nothing quite like oral satisfaction...giving or receiving.

    Blowjobs
ha, the classic madonna whore syndrome. i bet he's got a 'whore' on the side and he eats her pussy too. his wife is nothing more than the bearer of children.


lo45639 68M  
7 posts
3/16/2020 6:08 pm

This is how I reply when someone calls me a useless cocksucker, "Hey, anybody that sucks cock is not useless". lol


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
3/16/2020 8:09 pm

Yes, it's weird.... maybe she married a damn homo.....


leisure99 49M

3/16/2020 8:24 pm

That is craziness! What Is his rationale for refusing her to give him a blowjob? I’m at a loss with that part of your post. I am intrigued though with the first part, that you love giving blowjobs.


Hawkfan533333 34M
688 posts
3/16/2020 9:13 pm

Is it weird I dated a girl who thought oral was nasty, but would give me bad head still, but wouldn't let me go down on her She let me once, and she even admitted she really liked it, but was to grossed out by it still.

Feel free to message my private mailbox


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
3/16/2020 9:37 pm

You are not the only one who thinks this is weird.
It is weird.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

3/16/2020 10:04 pm

I am not a fan of receiving oral, just not my thing, and not that into anal either, now I am more than happy to go down on my partner, on the rare and getting rarer occasion that I have one.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


ThickHardandFit 44M
1 post
3/25/2020 12:43 pm

Id say its unusual but not weird. I'd assume most men wouldn't pass up a good bj. So maybe its a question of what turns him on or off about a bj and how your friend performs it? I personally think oral, both giving and receiving, is essential to hot sex.


Gentleman0071968 56M

3/26/2020 1:03 pm

If that man does not allow his wife to give him a blowjob he is not a man in my opinion. I personally love to eat pussy absolutely love it. I couldn't imagine my wife wanted me to eat her pussy and I don't. Somebody else will eat her pussy. Fact.


3wekid 57M
1 post
4/7/2020 5:10 am

Kinda weird 'cause most of us LOVE blowjobs but here's a thought, maybe she sucks at sucking dick...ijs....she should ask him why he doesn't want her to give him bj's and maybe she'll find out that either, in his mind, she sucks at it (no pun again) at which point she can ask him to teach her what he likes, he has a female side fluffer or he likes men. Hope she gets her satisfaction.


BWPHOENIX 52M
19 posts
5/7/2020 6:55 am

Yes, that’s definitely unusual. Any man that is in a relationship with a woman that WANTS to suck his cock should consider himself lucky. They aren’t all like that. She’s a keeper. The only thing I can think of is maybe there’s a medical issue or he’s smaller than average and embarrassed? Other than that I can’t come up with a valid reason to say no to BJ from a significant other.


YankMyDoodle69 60M  
72 posts
5/17/2020 4:18 am

I used to work for a guy who mentioned that he felt that way. He even admitted that its a control issue.

Other than that, he seemed normal.


rm_beachtalent 62M  
3 posts
5/18/2020 2:16 am

Well I for one love Bj's . Have to say I have dealt with the 'teeth issue' once or twice usually was able to get them to use less teeth . Most of the women i have been with would swallow. There was one woman that refused to swallow and made such a big deal of getting up out of bed and running to bathroom and spitting out that eventually I moved on, because I found my self not looking forward to her BJ's . ( still accepted them though)


MDoutdoors 61M
19 posts
9/6/2021 10:11 am

Sounds strange.....I'm a pro at getting oral....help me stay in practice?


newfuntimesguy 49M
201 posts
1/4/2022 1:16 pm

first of all -glad to hear that you enjoy giving head ! i love both giving and receiving from hungry women so...dont hesitate to reah out

also yes that is wierd that a husband wont let his wife go down on him-last time i heard of that the person was a serial murderer who" didn't want to degrade his wife" just young exotic dancers


fun14u45 47M

1/29/2022 8:48 am

so strange. maybe a hangup from previous relationship or being teased or something...?


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