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UM, Like Really!!  

BustySaLaRue 44F
12 posts
3/9/2020 6:02 pm
UM, Like Really!!


Okay so this is the first I have ever done this. Not exactly sure how to to do this, so here goes...
I want to ask questions and find out about how and what people think in situations and how people just go on through their everyday existence. An honest forum to discuss, rant and improve living in this over sexed, under loved and wrongfully judgemental "hump" life. So I am going to throw out a few questions and see what happens.

1) When looking through posts what is something you feel that needs to be in their profile, or what information do you feel you want to know.

Here goes.....

I would like if people say "yes I'm a thoughtless idiot that just wants a 1 night stand and never to know anything about you or ever see you again" or "I want sex and I would also possibly maybe like to get to know about you over time"

Aahhh so here goes I a bit nervous!!! Let me know what YOU think

h4rry66 57M

3/9/2020 10:37 pm

Hey busty. You look hot, so I would want to have you over and over and over again. Hope this helps and my wish comes true and you want me too x


Yours_4A_knight 59M

3/9/2020 11:34 pm

H Busty, GREAT to meet you . .well er to read your blog.

The problem with a simple stark choices, like age and height, is that people on the internet lie, and lean more in the direction of what they want to be than what they really are, something you have experiences I am sure.

which is why the essay sections are so important, they are fuzzier and while some very smooth people do deceive there as well, they keep closer what they are really thinking, between that and the junkiness of the profile pictures guys really are pretty clear with what they want.

Though I am unmeetable and in no way someone the women I am interested in would consider date material, so take what I have written with a grain of salt

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
3/10/2020 2:00 am

An honest forum to discuss, rant and improve living in this over sexed, under loved and wrongfully judgemental "hump" life. .... Nothing wrong with being judgmental. Humans have been this way for hundreds of thousands of years.
"Underloved"? No. We're probably in the time, here and now, where love can most easily be found.
"Oversexed"? ..No.
The internet has just made human sexual existence seem that way, today. But truth be said, we've always been this way. We've just not known how much , before.

When looking through posts what is something you feel that needs to be in their profile, or what information do you feel you want to know. .... Honestly, just a picture, m/f, heterosexual/homosexual, and a quick note about what they're looking for, would be enough. After that, just a willingness to meet in person.


I would like if people say "yes I'm a thoughtless idiot that just wants a 1 night stand and never to know anything about you or ever see you again" .... Really though, they are not "Thoughtless idiots" if that's all they want. I mean, this kind of site is the most appropriate site to be on, if a one-night-stand is all they want. ...That should just be expected.

If a person is here, looking for an on going personal relationship, and complaining people only showing up for one time sex....then that person is wrong. They should be on those sites that obviously advertise finding long term relationships.

or "I want sex and I would also possibly maybe like to get to know about you over time"..... Not really necessary, because when you do meet in person, this tends to work out that way, or not.

You might go to a meeting and with the idea of a one time hook up, and [both] come away with wanting to see more of each other. That's life.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/10/2020 5:33 am

I think you nailed it! 👍
Honesty... That's what I'm looking for.
THAT... and a sense of humour. I mean... if someone can't take things less seriously and enjoy a chuckle... What's the point? 🤔
Have fun here. 🍷🍷🌹❗👍😎


Blee761 62M  
519 posts
3/10/2020 7:38 am

Honesty, vunerability and a well thought-out profile without being a novelization is what draws my attention. Photos and videos I can go one way or the other with, as even fake profiles have them. Questions and answers filled out to a degree can also deepen my impression. And keeping an ongoing blog? That tells me that person is one of substance and helps me more in evaluating of that person and I could be a good fit or not.


Bodyboy6804 61M
17 posts
3/10/2020 8:29 am

Hi I'm here for the sex I want to know you but that's it want the one time thing is ok but more is always better this is a sex site not really a date site but that's all in what one is looking for

Keep it fun


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
3/10/2020 9:25 am

I want to know the hole story! And if it's good and we click, many many more times!


rusty_nail 74M  
699 posts
3/10/2020 10:20 am

After my second divorce in Cincy, I vow to fuck everything in a skirt. But -- after several one time encounters - I wanted more from sex than just getting a nut.

I found that a regular partner did that. I learned what rang their bell, and they mine.. I found short term girl friends more exciting than the no name stuff.
And, hello to blogville.


BustySaLaRue 44F
2 posts
11/29/2020 5:54 am

WOW everyone I really didn't think anyone was going to read this and respond (in all honesty I did not know how to find it again after I posted)! Also, as you are well aware, I have no idea what to do on this so please jump in and help at anytime!


Winstonwpg 63M
2 posts
11/29/2020 10:04 am

Thank you to Heathen_G for the format to answer the blog questions!

An honest forum to discuss, rant and improve living in this over sexed, under loved and wrongfully judgemental "hump" life. .... I have to say I really don’t understand the statement “wrongfully judgemental "hump" life. “

And… I agreed that I would like honest contributions in the groups however I also understand that some people just want to get laid and will say or do anything to achieve that success including not tell the truth and tell the truth… It’s up to you to decide to the best of your ability with limited information what is the truth and what isn’t.

When looking through posts what is something you feel that needs to be in their profile, or what information do you feel you want to know. .... (not changing Heathen_G ‘s Response because it was spot on) Honestly, just a picture, m/f, heterosexual/homosexual, and a quick note about what they're looking for, would be enough. After that, just a willingness to meet in person.

I would like if people say "yes I'm a thoughtless idiot that just wants a 1 night stand and never to know anything about you or ever see you again" .... Really though, they are not "Thoughtless idiots" if that's all they want. I mean, this kind of site is the most appropriate site to be on, if a one-night-stand is all they want. ...That should just be expected. (Again keeping the original response plus adding,,, your question busty actually’s is a little more about you than it does about asking the question because you are saying somebody who wants a one night stand is a thoughtless idiot. However, I have met females who are actually looking for one night stands, however it wasn’t on AgoraCosmopolitan Dating it was on another site that was not overtly a sex site)

For me, I am looking for a one night stand that will develop into many nights. And again for me, I am looking for good sex first and foremost. Anything over that is a bonus!

or "I want sex and I would also possibly maybe like to get to know about you over time"..... So the thing about this site is that you have the pussy so you make the rules… The reality is that there are exponentially more males and females which means you are going to have two deal with a significant amount of bull shit.


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3 posts
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