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2/8/2020 3:41 pm |
I can completely understand how you feel. My condolences on what you are going thru, often times people have no idea as to what they have or how precious someone is until the gem itself is gone. In your case, you being the Gem. But he has to realize the sparkle and shining light in his home is gone and will never get it back. Yet you are correct it is a good idea to find your true self and your true reflection before anything else. As oftentimes when we are in a relationship for awhile, we tend to lose track of who we really are.
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Well done for thinking and acting the way you did x Changing your environment and moving 5 hours away means you choose who, what and where you go. No old haunts and people. Lee x
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2/8/2020 4:33 pm |
It takes strength and courage to move away from what you use to be to start again and re-discover who you can become, enjoy the challenges of the change and make a new you.
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My perspective on this ; You got married at 19, so you probably had to be dating him for a year or two..... That means you never gave yourself a chance to grow up and find out who you are. He wasn't your other half. Your half didn't exist yet. He certainly wasn't your best friend you could have ever made, either. Simply because you didn't know any better...no previous adult , on your own, experiences. As I said, you weren't a fully formed adult yet. So now, you at the age of 49, with the dating experience of 17 or 18 yo......be careful.
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2/8/2020 9:51 pm |
Sorry to hear of your pain. Let me know if I can help in anyway x
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2/10/2020 9:52 am |
Hi I am John from the south towns area of Buffalo.I am single,61 and very much alone.I have been looking for a long time and I want a long term relationship.I want to make a woman happy in all ways forever.Hope you are interested.
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