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IM's on AFF  

drtyolman1961 63M
14 posts
8/19/2018 4:54 pm
IM's on AFF


I'm not sure if the IM is working.I've sent several messages over the last few days and received no response from any,so it must not be working or just rude people who won't even respond with a Thanks but no thanks.

cowhand581000 65M

8/19/2018 4:59 pm

It's the site, I can be in the middle of a conversation and it just stops.


TB5758 65M/67F  
577 posts
8/19/2018 5:05 pm

I am sorry to say it could be both a defective system and rude people. Neither is good for sure.


Luv2bottom4u2 67M  
1875 posts
8/19/2018 5:14 pm

It's this friggin site most of the time !


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/19/2018 5:20 pm

its not the sites fault that im does not work well it is the internet explorer that screws up the site is using it as a means to allow ppl to interact but if ppl are on there broadcasting and others are trying to chat how much traffic do you think that can handle geez there are some limits as to how much things can stand till it overloads and acts up Wakey wakey ppl!!


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
8/19/2018 5:24 pm

Even if the IM is working, it really isn't !!!


fkmeallnitelong9 53F  
2586 posts
8/19/2018 5:40 pm

..yes it happens ALL THE TIME....dropped messages too often


smallballs555 68M
141 posts
8/19/2018 5:55 pm

if you are IM'ing a standard they may not be able to respond 3 a day limit


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
8/19/2018 6:16 pm

The site puts everyone on IM - even if they don't want to be.
The site also has a big delay before showing someone has left IM.
Don't assume a person is rude when, in fact, they really might not be there.

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Any1outTher2Play 53M/43F
7 posts
8/19/2018 6:37 pm

Has AgoraCosmopolitan Dating responded to the slow IM service?


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
8/19/2018 7:00 pm

The IM ability does work, most of the time, just to pick out some one that is "online and IM" and send a random message is like looking for the needle in that hay stack, You will get very few returns.. I use IM regularly but , the party's know me and I know who and when their available.... a BIG thing is that the SITE will put some one on IM that is not even in the country, try it, look at a profile, put a comment under a photo, and most of the time it will turn on their IM, LOL, been seeing this for 5 years, just another way to create activity..

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gottafat4u69 43M  
25 posts
8/19/2018 7:06 pm

It works sometimes


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
8/19/2018 8:03 pm

Not rude to not answer a im. Wrong age, sex, being a couple, a hasty dick picture, etc could be why some don't answer. I don't use it but doesn't stop some from sending me one. Just like it doesn't stop some from writing.

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FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
8/20/2018 6:54 am

What others said:

1) IM stops working or when I try to answer, I just get a blank window.
2) Many I don't respond to because too old, too young, not local, blurred gray pic which means a dick pick if I open the IM.
3) I hit my 3-a-day limit.
4) ??-only AgoraCosmopolitan Dating knows!


Swurveman 56M

8/20/2018 8:36 am

It is a total ripoff and one of the reasons I won't be renewing.


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