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Turn Offs  

TB5758 65M/67F  
26 posts
8/22/2018 5:14 am
Turn Offs

"I can do oral for hours", "The Lady is First", "It is all about her pleasure", Really? We see these things and shake our heads. Someone thought this was a good idea and then others copied it. It is old, tired and most of all it is bullshit. When guys focus on their oral skills it means a few different things to us. No stamina, can't get hard enough
for penetration or cannot maintain an erection. Oral is great, no doubt but if you do it right it does not take hours and it is an appetizer not the main course. Oral is pretty common in this day and age and is pretty routine. Oral is like spaghetti sauce, everyone makes the best. Put these statements in with the bathroom mirror pic as stuff that is awful to see. Of course this is just an opinion. If you do take a bathroom mirror pic, clean it first. The green mold is a turnoff and an alarm. Hope this helps!

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
8/22/2018 9:12 am

 I dunno, I have had a few gals that enjoyed it so much and wanted it for so long, that I wondered if they were BI. But I agree it SHOULD be foreplay, not the entire event. I have also met quite a few women who enjoyed clit stimulation much much more than penetration, which to me SHOULD be the EVENT.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/22/2018 3:26 pm

 LakeRidge: Penetration is not THE event. The orgasm is and how it's achieved is between the participants. Frankly, nipple play and oral at the same time can push me righto the wall BUT it does not take all night.
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stringtime666 62M
1128 posts
10/30/2018 4:30 am

 think the same.
Oral + Toys + masturbating + massage + edging + quick ones (+++) are hot things, the right time for the right feeling...
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bande6365 59M/61F
145 posts
4/8/2019 6:09 am

 I appreciate your opinion that oral is common... I’d like to take advantage of that lol


TB5758 replies on 4/8/2019 6:28 am:
It is a red flag when that is all they talk about. Makes me nuts hearing it but thank you for the kind words and response.

1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
12/17/2019 2:47 pm

 Yes a red flag to me as well, usually means they are compensating for something. As long aĺl involved are enjoying. So many types of orgasms to enjoy 😉


TB5758 replies on 12/17/2019 3:18 pm:
Agreed 100 %!

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