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CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
4/7/2021 12:00 pm

It's perfectly fine to compare one lover to another - just be smart enough to keep those comparisons to yourself!!

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scoupe42 60M

4/7/2021 12:41 pm

Awesome poem!


donsv1962 61M

4/7/2021 12:55 pm

You can't be anyone but yourself my friend.

I want to take you into the fiery lair of steamy sexual delight on this hot sultry night.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
4/7/2021 1:36 pm

True, Joy, but we are all composed from our experiences, our loves, our dreams and our regrets. When something has ended, either because fate decrees it, or simply because it didn't work out, that person is a part of your reference. Few people are daft enough to expect that a new relationship will clone the old and those that fate has cheated know that that would be the last thing you want (you want her back, not some pale shadow), but it is inevitable that the thoughts cross your mind - more of nature than physique, though.


JackJack1971 52M
20 posts
4/7/2021 1:44 pm

Why would you want to compare one to another? I love women's bodies, I love how each one is a little different than the next. Unless you have implants then they all pretty much look the same... which isn't my thing.
I mean I know I wouldn't like having my manhood compared to someone else's.
Think about the person's feelings.


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
4/7/2021 2:58 pm

I was getting messages from a member on here about who he been with and what they've done and I finally went in my phone and blocked him because I do not want to hear about that. If you're going to be with me be with me; for everything that you see. Youou want to compare me with who you've been with in the past then you keep moving is how I feel about it. Nobody is the same. Everyone in their body is different and their personalities attitude everything so no I don't do that if I want someone like my ex I will be with my ex that's why I moved on to find someone that's decent who wants to be with me for me.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


peladodel56 67M
10340 posts
4/7/2021 3:35 pm

Soy de vivir el presente y algo preocupado por el futuro... así que lo que ya pasó... pasó. Comparar no está bien y no sirve para vivir plenamente el presente. Besos


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
4/7/2021 3:49 pm

Hmmm.... There was only ONE thing that I ever compared other women to my ex wife; do they get my sense of humour.
True, about not needing to compare. We're all different! 👍 ❗❗😎


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
4/7/2021 6:30 pm


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
4/8/2021 12:09 am

I've never been much into comparisons of lovers. It serves no purpose.


Ultraviolet_Sol 43M
622 posts
4/8/2021 1:38 am

I think that the modern society that we live in indoctrinates us into a sort of... Will to compartmentalization.

Think of the VALS system of advertisers, created before we were born. I think this mind set is also woven into our education system and elsewhere.

Or maybe these things are merely reflections of the nature of humans.

I believe in discretion and respect. When I am with someone I focus on only them; I seek to charge our connection to the status of supernova. And if things went bad, I think it would be ungentlemanly to showcase a new, sexual pursuit? Regardless, I couldn't do that to someone. I love women too much.

But then... The only rule is there are no rules/and there is an anomaly to every rule.

best wishes to all

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easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
4/8/2021 6:39 am

I would never dare to try to compare lovers that way I have more memories of both mind and body. xoxo


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