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The object is to hit a home run each and every time one is up to bat, any other mental thoughts would be counter productive,, Do it right all the time and then just do it again .. and then smile!!! Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Okay I am  Have a great weekend hun.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Hmmmm...... Ok. This is a little tricky. I usually give my all when I am well rested and feeling great, physically and emotionally. Not stressed about the big 3 (Sex, money, work). I'm thinking the last time everything lined up was several months ago. Mind you, from reading the blogs here and talking to people, even half-assed trying from me is better than most people's all. It might be time to push myself into making someone very happy for a few hours. Have a great weekend.
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Personally I go in (pun intended) expecting to "give it my all" during sex. Then there are the realities of life; how attracted are you to her, what kind of shape are you in after a week of work etc, how much time do you have to have "fun"  . There are probably other situational conditions I can't think of right now.When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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11/30/2019 12:06 pm |
What was the point
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11/30/2019 12:09 pm |
Give it my all right now!!!
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11/30/2019 12:19 pm |
I trully enjoy a female pleasure, and I am trying to always get it, even If I am not having on my own.
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11/30/2019 12:24 pm |
Great question as it does provoke some serious thought... On an occasion or two...I have caught up to a Woman that I liked but wasn't overly head over heels for or about. On those occasions I will even have to say that I was somewhat selfish because it was really all about me feeling pleasure. Kind of sad...because it was like I was using a rental car. Not really what i drive but it will get me there. Maybe from now on I should be like Avis and try harder and give it all I got??? [post 4274899]
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I have to read my partner's 'vibe' to figure out what kind of fun we'll be having. It's very situational.
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11/30/2019 1:17 pm |
After Y U pass-out,,,][ rest. 
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11/30/2019 1:52 pm |
I give it all when in missionary position, doggy style and when eating some hot pussy. But like to just lay back, relax and enjoy when the woman is on top or when I'm being sucked off.
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Depends if she falls asleep in the middle of it, I might up the intensity.
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I always try to please my partner to the best of my ability. That being said, when they don't put effort in to equal mine i simply think of sex with someone else to make myself get off. I make sure she gets off 1st.
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BiggLala replies on 11/30/2019 3:02 pm: I agree that I think we all "go in" expecting we'll give it our all. Yet, as you said, "...the realities of life..." set in and we...don't. It's the honest realities that I'm looking for. (Of course, I'm sure you know I have a specific thought process in mind and want to see if some will own up to it, lol. ) Uhmmm, yeah. This is along the lines of the 'Do these jeans make my ass look fat?' trap.  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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11/30/2019 4:00 pm |
I always give it my all. I get turned on when make a woman cum and orgasm or squirt over and over again
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Could I just get a Dr. Pepper with no ice? I'll just go sit in the corner and check on the answers as they show up. Thanks!  Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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the time i give it all i got...is...the first time i ever sex with the person...for real...i ma friggin all pumped up, few days before i have sex with that man...i can hear the theme song from "Rocky" blaring in my background...yah...that serious...and not only all my action, but what i am wearing, including my best lucky matching bra and panties...you know the whole deal...doncha... wait...wait...lala...why you are laughing??? are you laughing about meeee???? wut??? doncha do that???
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now..that's been said...if the person failed to give me all he got??? ohhhh...he is a complete loser...he is dead...yah...
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Could I just get a Dr. Pepper with no ice? I'll just go sit in the corner and check on the answers as they show up. Thanks! Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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🤐 Hm, emoji is too small to really see, that's a zipped mouth.   
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Not? When I go to bed last thing at night on days off, I go to bed to sleep, so beyond a brief bout of foreplay, I have zero interest in sex, I want sleep. A woman who rarely sucks my cock, well not sucks, but at least knows how to use her tongue and mouth on my head to properly pleasure me. The above two directly related to end of last association with a woman, from here Some form of comunication that I am doing the right things helps perform well All selfishly ego-driven I guess
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Depends if she falls asleep in the middle of it, I might up the intensity.  
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Interesting...I've never really thought about this! I suppose I always intend to "give it all" but then the real world realities kick in - the chemistry is just not there, I'm more tired than I expected, things like that. One VERY SPECIFIC memory from a LONG time ago: I was still single and out in the bars hunting for new pussy to take home and try. (That's how we did it in the 70s - sex first, then maybe a relationship afterwards.) Pickings were getting short as closing time approached. I took what was left - it was obvious why she was left too. Even in my mid-20s I count get it up. Even masturbating while she watched did not work. I honestly felt bad about it all and for hurting her that way. Likely the lowest moment of my sexual adventuring life. The Clam before the Storm Black Friday Alternative Thanksgiving, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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Personally I go in (pun intended) expecting to "give it my all" during sex. Then there are the realities of life; how attracted are you to her, what kind of shape are you in after a week of work etc, how much time do you have to have "fun" . There are probably other situational conditions I can't think of right now.
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Interesting...I've never really thought about this! I suppose I always intend to "give it all" but then the real world realities kick in - the chemistry is just not there, I'm more tired than I expected, things like that. One VERY SPECIFIC memory from a LONG time ago: I was still single and out in the bars hunting for new pussy to take home and try. (That's how we did it in the 70s - sex first, then maybe a relationship afterwards.) Pickings were getting short as closing time approached. I took what was left - it was obvious why she was left too. Even in my mid-20s I count get it up. Even masturbating while she watched did not work. I honestly felt bad about it all and for hurting her that way. Likely the lowest moment of my sexual adventuring life. The Clam before the Storm Black Friday Alternative Thanksgiving, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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reality of life sets in...yah...to me, the reality is when the sex become just a routine...ya know...like during the sex, i am thinking, "damn, i got to take the laundry out of the dryer..." or "don't forget to give the lunch money to my son..."...lol...sorry, that's the kind of things going though my mind, when the sex become a routine...oh, c'mon now...everyone do it...right??? no???  Regarding laundry, mine gets well hung on a line outside  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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When the pressure is off and when the time is right. I've let ladies down and didn't give my all at times. I will admit that.
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I always give - 'all I have to give'. Now... how MUCH do, I have to give? THAT'S... another question. When I'm feeling one hundred percent and I'm motivated and the 'lust' factor is up there - then I'll give it 'my all'. I'll gauge her interest and mirror it or raise it ; or she'll raise mine. Otherwise sex, ... is just like a REALLY good - golf swing. You only need 80% of your power. Hit it straight down the middle of the fairway, and more than likely - it'll be a good shot. Now, if ya gotta carry a lake... and there's a wind? Ya might want to give a little more. You have to keep something in reserve, for THOSE moments. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Correct... I don't. But I'm rarely disappointed and neither is she. We set realistic goals ; given the time, place, fantasies, (etc.), we both might have. How can you fail, when you've both reached the goals you've set? Effort or energy used to ATTAIN 'them', are irrelevant. Misread her interest? Not likely. Never... Oh yeah. I was in highschool once. In any case ; easily resolved by effectively communicating. We'll see where we are and either play it (or not), from there. 'Motivation' and 'lust' ARE interchangeable... True. I mean... I WILL be motivated when she's lusting over me, which will then create a 'lust filled' response in me. So? Egg - chicken ; chicken - egg? Who knows? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Well... ya asked me... a question. I replied. Now... you're disagreeing with my pov and you don't like my answer; " Lust and motivation, are interchangeable" - for ME. THAT'S fine. But don't ask me to explain it again. I just did. "What leads me to be motivated and what needs to be there for the 'Lost- motivation Factor' to be present? " So... you want specifics? Could be random stuff. Her smile, a remark, a glimpse of her panties or ass or her perfect nails. Could be her perfume or her eyes ... or ALL of the above. Or none. And maybe, it's something in the way she laughs. I don't know. It's different every... single... time. It's never the same. You've either been there with someone ... or... you haven't. I guess I'm done. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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What aspects need to line up... Well.... if I am tired or dehydrated I don't have the energy to deal with a woman who has multiple orgasms... If you need 10, 15, 20 then I need to be able to perform. If I am worried about my job, or finding a job, I just can't seem to loose myself with the person I'm with. That sort of thing. Some women don't want my all... they want 30 min and done. They have to be relaxed and enjoying it too... if they aren't having fun then I'm not having fun and just getting it over with becomes more important that giving it my all.
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Yes
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I've not had the 'luxury' of not giving it my all for a long long time. The only time I can remember such a thing was when I was much younger, late teens, and didnae really fancy the girl....... Otherwise, my dear friend Palm gets my full and undivided attention every time these days!!  
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Well there was that time that my now ex-wife was getting ready to head out to work... I had been teasing her that morning and had just a bathrobe on and kept caressing and touching her trying to get her to have a quicky before she left. She was insistent that I was going to make her late for work though. So as she was going through the living room I ambushed her and picked her up and carried her to the couch and asked her to just let me lick her for a minute before she left for the day. She agreed to it as long as it was just some pussy licking. So I pulled her pants down to her ankles and slid her bottom to the edge of the couch and dove in. I spent just a few minutes or so licking her and elicited a few moans and some squirming and her humping up into my face. Then I moved up and was kissing her, having opened my robe as I moved up it took just a bit of aligning to slip inside slowly as she groaned and I said Pierre wanted to kiss Fefe too and she repeated I was going to make her late. So I picked up the pace and made it a real quick quicky and was cumming in her in just about 3-5 minutes or so. As I pulled out and wiped her off with a handkerchief from my robe pocket she said hey what about me? I said, well I didn't want to make you late for work! Then I kissed her again and said I'd give her a rain check. She cashed the rain check in later as soon as she got home and dragged me up to the bedroom.... But as to your question about giving it my all well all I can say is I don't do the routine thing and like to change things up (yes things do get repeated etc... What can I say if you have sex more than once a year then things do get repeated etc.). But I take every time as a new experience and am thinking about what I can do to get my partner excited and intetested. So things tend to be different even if they may be very similar to other times all to often but I like to keep the interest changing up and exciting. So not every time is going to be a checklist thing where I go through a routine as that would bore the fuck out of me but if I am engaging my partner she has my attention and I'm doing my best at the moment for the situation. That being said sometimes people are tired and it may be just a lazy fuck without getting all worked up but it doesn't mean that I'm not all involved. If I wasn't interested even if it was her that wanted the action and I was just doing it for her I would be sure to see to it that she got her satisfaction though I may not be putting in the effort to get particularly excited and get an ecstatic orgasm for myself. Sometimes I didn't even finish myself but just got her off. But sadly about the only sex I have been having for a while now has been the lonely kind. Vive La Difference
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The intent is to give it my all everytime but age has thrown a curve ball into that plan. I will say, that when she is really into it and is really horny then I am able to step up my game. It involves all for me, mind, sight, smell and kinkiness. Oh... and a half of one of those little rhinos can help me get back to action sooner if there is a round two in the cards.
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12/19/2019 2:42 am |
what does it all mean i think you want to satisfy your partner no matter what it takes
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Having been raised a gentleman, I believe that ladies cum first. Sometimes second and third too. To be honest, I absolutely love performing oral on my partner first. Start by exploring her entire body with my tongue then spending as much time as she wants giving her as many orgasms as she can handle before worrying about myself. Let's face it us guys are easy to get off and we cant fake it, so if i make her happy she'll usually be glad to make me happy.
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12/24/2019 8:19 am |
depends on the woman i'm with- if I there isn't the chemistry then between us then I don't bother with the sex part- I can use my hand for that-
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Interesting happyf;
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12/28/2019 12:00 pm |
I give it my all when I’m turned on and desire my partner ..when I want to make an impression, I don’t go e it my all when I’m not that into the connection but cumming would be nice 👍🏻
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12/28/2019 8:28 pm |
So much of your question depends on what the meaning of “give it your all” is. A lot of it is about opinion and perspective. It can be taken as completely going for it, or pumping as fast and hard as one can, or even something else. I look at it as being fully committed to the moment with your partner. I take is as a promise to my partner to be fully present with her and follow the sensual prompts guiding me to her highest pleasure. To me giving it my all is becoming one with her magical flow and not being in a hurry to get somewhere, but making the journey more important that any destination. I am not sure about anyone else, but to me, if I am not going to give it my all for any reason, I would prefer to wait until I will. If the chemistry and the connection is not ripe for the moment, then any unfulfilling pleasure I might attempt to share will not allow a real magic to be experienced by either of us. I think sex is wonderful, but I find it even more fulfilling we are willing to let it be something even more special. Perhaps, a sacred gift you share with someone or a journey of true sensual magic. Perhaps I’m a romantic of sorts. I just truly think that enjoying the journey is so much more magical than hurrying to the destination. I am not so sure that this answers the curiosity for you question, however, I thought I would share my thoughts anyway.
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1/3/2020 10:38 pm |
I "give it my all" when I'm well rested, haven't had a drink (alcohol doesn't help with stamina, focus or pleasure in my opinion), have had plenty of foreplay and am really excited/into the girl I'm with. My all would be multiple sexy times in one night, and then some in the morning (will have morning wood if I am excited by my partner). If it's simply "to get laid," there is no passion so I can't really give my all. I hope that answers your question. In the meantime, I'll rub one out thinking of you. All this talk got me hot XD
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Having been raised a gentleman, I believe that ladies cum first. Sometimes second and third too. To be honest, I absolutely love performing oral on my partner first. Start by exploring her entire body with my tongue then spending as much time as she wants giving her as many orgasms as she can handle before worrying about myself. Let's face it us guys are easy to get off and we cant fake it, so if i make her happy she'll usually be glad to make me happy. To really find out how to satisfy my partner, especially in the beginning, I prefer to take the time to make sure she is satisfied first. I want to be able to concentrate on trying to read the often subtle signs of what is turning her on or off. Giving it your all, at least to me, means making sure that my partner is satisfied and has a good time. And that means taking the time to learn her likes and dislikes.
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2/26/2020 10:01 am |
Well, as long as I’ve not been drinking I give it my all but I don’t get laid as often as I’d like. So if I think I’m going to get sex I won’t drink. I always give it my best effort when I eat pussy because that’s what I’m known for being good at.
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