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Etiquette in online sex/dating sites  

Naughtypursuit 56F  
1697 posts
1/26/2020 7:59 am
Etiquette in online sex/dating sites


Internetiquette

-Your word is your worth - Avoid appeasing and making empty commitments, don't lie. Its better to be disappoint at the get-go then to build up deception over time

-Don't piss on the seedlings, they become Trees - assuming someone is a weed because you are not familiar with them or they seem unequal to you will only get you into trouble

-All Trees can be felled - no one is too tall, too strong, too powerful or impervious. Even a mighty tree can be felled by a tiny bug

-Any plant can heal or harm - depending on how you interact with it. Its better to understand nuances then to decree everything is absolute. Just because someone disagree with you does not make them evil

-Don't poison the pot (blogville) - if you pour poison into the well you drink from you will eventually feel the effects

-Whats good for the goose is good for the goose - just because someone does something their own way, they are saying what works for them. Its normal to compare and contrast but there is no need to set up competition or drama over it. -We have all walked in different shoes in our lives

-Follow the intent - rather then jumping to defensive/offensive/being triggered take a minute to reflect, better yet take 24 hours to reflect.

-Follow the rule of threefold - read everything three times, read your response three times.

-Remember you can catch more flies with honey then you can with sour milk

-Know yourself, dont mistake your dogs admiration as evidence that you are wonderful. Don't use knowing yourself as an excuse to excuse your bad behaviour.

When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete everybody will respect you - Tzu

Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
1/26/2020 8:00 am

Internetiquette

-Your word is your worth - Avoid appeasing and making empty commitments, don't lie. Its better to be disappoint at the get-go then to build up deception over time

-Don't piss on the seedlings, they become Trees - assuming someone is a weed because you are not familiar with them or they seem unequal to you will only get you into trouble

-All Trees can be felled - no one is too tall, too strong, too powerful or impervious. Even a mighty tree can be felled by a tiny bug

-Any plant can heal or harm - depending on how you interact with it. Its better to understand nuances then to decree everything is absolute. Just because someone disagree with you does not make them evil

-Don't poison the pot (blogville) - if you pour poison into the well you drink from you will eventually feel the effects

-Whats good for the goose is good for the goose - just because someone does something their own way, they are saying what works for them. Its normal to compare and contrast but there is no need to set up competition or drama over it. -We have all walked in different shoes in our lives

-Follow the intent - rather then jumping to defensive/offensive/being triggered take a minute to reflect, better yet take 24 hours to reflect.

-Follow the rule of threefold - read everything three times, read your response three times.

-Remember you can catch more flies with honey then you can with sour milk

-Know yourself, dont mistake your dogs admiration as evidence that you are wonderful. Don't use knowing yourself as an excuse to excuse your bad behaviour.

When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete everybody will respect you - Tzu


waterdrop00 67M
147 posts
1/26/2020 8:03 am

Very profound wisdom ............ but few practice the principles.....


cwazywabbit009 59M
6313 posts
1/26/2020 8:05 am

Now to get those that need this to read this, that is the challenge!

Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it


hornybbc69 64M
181 posts
1/26/2020 8:06 am

well said keep it up thanks for sharing lol....


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
1/26/2020 8:13 am

Thanks for sharing, hopefully more will read this.


dwz5234 71M
2394 posts
1/26/2020 8:31 am

I like your words so true so many more should read this thank you


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/26/2020 8:41 am

I'm having wine for breakfast... You?
Something I read, about starting a day off, on the right foot. 🍷🍷🍷🍷


lust4life59 65F  
2552 posts
1/26/2020 8:43 am

THis is all so true. One of the best bits of advice I got from my late husband was not responding to a heated discussion without thinking about my response for 24 hours. One of the beauties of a blog is that it gives you time to respond, rather than the chatroom, wait two mins and the moment is lost forever. It was OK to write it in the heat of the moment, just don't hit send. If you revisited your response the next day, and it was still relevant, then and only then reply. Nine times out of ten, my response ended up in the trash bin.


mc_justmc 63M

1/26/2020 8:43 am

Unfortunately, the people who need this, won't read this.


golsingh1 64M
41 posts
1/26/2020 9:03 am

We all need to be thoughtful BFFORE opening our mouths to speak.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
1/26/2020 10:36 am

You nailed this one Naughty thank you so much hun.. I hope you have a very Peaceful Sunday hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


drinksprite62 61M  
7927 posts
1/26/2020 11:24 am

Very sound advice and well written. Wish more people would practice it.


leftoverture69 60M
163 posts
1/26/2020 3:28 pm

sound advice!


topherific 61M
5209 posts
1/28/2020 8:16 pm

actually piss is good for plants, promoting nitrogen adding to soil quality


Keppel37 55M
3657 posts
2/5/2020 8:16 am

That Lao Tze wasn't half a clever bloke.....

He maybe didn't come up with 'Keep it simple,stupid' but he should have

Mxxx


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