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....You don't know me!  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
11/12/2020 8:36 pm

Last Read:
11/14/2020 1:50 pm

....You don't know me!

I'm amazed that someone can be with someone for over 20 years, and don't know a damn thing about them I have a friend that been married for 23 years. He live a married life and a single life and do as he pleased. This guy is a friend, but he's a piece of shit! His wife got to be the most nieve person that walked this earth. She's blind as a bat, when it comes to him. I asked him, How in the hell you get way with so much shit?
He told me, "Lie", I said what? He said again, "Lie'. He said he's a hustler and love running the streets He can do his dirt and get away, this is the joy of a nieve wife.

Now, let me tell the real reason for this blog! First of all I was married, to a woman who didn't love me, hell, I don't even think she liked me. She was a player and been around the block several times, me and my coountry ass, fiqured since she was having my . I can make this story have a happy ending. WRONG! During the married she screw a few of my friends. My income was bad, so we need each other's income. She said, she with stop fucking other guys, so I decided to be a detective and see if she's legit.. I had a night job. I worked from 11:00PM - 3:am. Some night she'll call me a work. No cell phones.

I'll talk a nap before I head to work. I sleep on white sheet and come home to purple sheets. This is the night she call. She call to see when i get home. So oneday she called, i ask to get off work early. For I knew tonight she would cheat. i came home and stood in front f the apartment, it was a cold night. I was out there around a half hour, then I heard the sliding door on the side of the apartment open and this guy come out the house. i could believe what I saw. So I said to myself, when the taxes come, i'm going to bale. When taxes come, we pay bill and split what's left.

A few months later, when the taxes came I got my half and I told her I was going to move on from her and get a divorce. She said, what did I do. I just said, You know. Sh e was crying and said again, Why? So then she got mad, and you changed, who are you? She also said, I don't know you! I told her, "You damn right! You don't know me!











lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
11/14/2020 3:50 am

wow. i'm glad you got out!

how did the coparenting go?


scoupe42 replies on 11/14/2020 11:58 am:
Thx my friend, I had to.

scoupe42 replies on 11/14/2020 12:00 pm:
I paid my child support and became a weekend dad. I was and still is in her life.

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
11/13/2020 8:14 am

You know my friend it's a terrible thing that happened to you and I am so sorry you had to go through that. But its good you got out when you did, and you got to start over making a better life for yourself.

I hope your Friday is a great start to your weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 replies on 11/13/2020 9:57 am:
Hi Temp, thx for viewing and kind feedback.

sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
11/13/2020 7:12 am

I'm so sorry this happened to you.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


scoupe42 replies on 11/13/2020 9:57 am:
Hi my friend, Thx. I was a lesson learned, thx for viewing

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
11/13/2020 1:12 am

Sad, about finding out the truth about someone. 😶


scoupe42 replies on 11/13/2020 4:53 am:
Hi Paul, I was shutting down for a while, but oneday, I went on with life. Thx for viewing

ltrskr 75M

11/13/2020 12:12 am

After many weeks of depositions going back and forth, who gets this, who gets that, she even kept the excess rebar I bought to add a patio later!

My lawyer told me one day after another ridiculous want,
You have two choices,
Divorce her or just shoot her, the legal fees will be the same, but in 3 to 5 you'll be done with the Bitch!.....LOL!
My son, 13 at the time still refers to her as his ex-mother!
Always a good post, Thanks!


scoupe42 replies on 11/13/2020 4:51 am:
Hi, thx for viewing and sharing your story with me.

scoupe42 60M

11/12/2020 8:40 pm

If you with someone who not doing right. The best way to get back at them is to leave them and find your own happiness!


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