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Always Remember You're Special...
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Always Remember You're Special... ...just like every other guy who's paying attention to me. I recently had an interlude, for lack of a better term, with someone that broke new ground in a number of undesirable ways. On paper, this someone was a great fit for me (super smart, submissive, well read, hot), but distance precluded anything substantive from developing between the two of us. Still, it was nice to interact and exchange ideas. As she wandered into what something between us would look like, were the distance removed, she became quite effusive with her praise, referring to me as 'divine' and using phrases such as 'meant to be'. You get the idea. Because life's all about context, I didn't truly take any of this to heart, but it was nice to hear. Of course, I wasn't sufficiently naïve to believe I was the only man she was chatting with, which she confirmed. She also admitted to craving attention from certain types of men, which I'd already figured out about her. Your grandmother would have called her 'boy crazy'. But surely, she wasn't sharing such intense sentiments with other men, right? There couldn't be multiple divine men out there, right? Yeah, not so much. She admitted espousing the same sentiments to some undisclosed number of additional men. Her rationale was she used those words in a different context than was typical, and telling me of course, there's a back story. Of course...there's always a back story. I think you'll agree that a shared language is important for well, everything. Back story or not, a soldier sitting in an underground silo can't one day decide that saying 'we have authorization to launch the missiles' really means he's going into town for a pastrami on rye. Needless to say, I severed ties after hearing that little gem. That was late last week. I've since happily moved on and reconnected with someone I should have held onto in the first place. But for some reason, I felt compelled this afternoon to revisit the communication I had with the woman who called me divine (she's right, you know). I feared I was being too harsh toward her. Nah, should have been more harsh. In scanning her notes, I uncovered two instances where her effusive praise was wrapped in an agreement to something I never said. This woman was copy pasting the exact same material to multiple men! Let me say it again; she was sending the same snippets of messages to multiple guys. If you've kept up with my blog, you know that I've seen a lot of different 'interesting' behaviors from women. But here's something brand new for the annals of dating history. |
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Aardvarks are known to regularly eat fifty thousand ants per day.
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Ya...i feel the same way when i get emails that smack of a mass mailing, nothing personal to me /about me. to which i respond, " i bet you say this to all the women" yep....shadiness abounds ~
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Those people remind me of door to door salesmen. You hit a lot of doors, you are bound to hit on something eventually. No matter how substantial that something is.
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Its a Mars/Venus thing, as insincerity =shady , in my book ~
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The unfortunate part of this whole situation is that she was my muse, for the past few months. So, I'm a bit lost for inspiration, at the moment. Now Hiring - Muse to stimulate my mind, heart, and soul. Ability to provide high quality baked goods a plus. Inquire within.
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