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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Condom Use  

tresennui 69F  
2842 posts
3/19/2012 7:16 pm

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Condom Use
Spontaneity is soooo nice, but you have to consider STDs. They are common, millions of people have them. They are just a result of being sexually active...even just a little. Many of us are exposed to them at some time in our lives if we've had more than one person we've been intimate with. Probably the only way you haven't been is if you are both virgins and have never even touched each others genitals or did more than a chaste kiss. In most cases they are not serious, completely curable, some you never know you have and your immune system works to fight off the virus on it's own.

It surprises me the number of men I'm with, who if I didn't say anything would readily fuck me without a condom. Admittedly, I'd much rather feel an unadorned cock slide into me, but have to be cautious and stop and think.....

SAFETY FIRST



This is not a public service announcement, just was thinking about some recent experiences and would like some HONEST feedback. How often do you forego safe sex and just plunge in (or let him plunge in) and say what the fuck?
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
goodwithhandsxxx 65M
31 posts
9/7/2016 10:30 pm

 I find it a huge turn on when a new lover slowly puts a condom on me and gently guides me in............


tresennui replies on 9/8/2016 4:19 pm:
That can be fun😊

xoxFlyboyxox 68M/68F

1/26/2013 1:49 pm

 I will always plunge in if if the woman doesn't require it. With 2 exceptions: i know she has been with a number of others recently, or in a group situation.


rm_qupee100 70M
30 posts
4/22/2012 7:06 pm

 Like most of you and i'm sure most people, i would not have to use a condom. But as much as i love sex, i love myself more and alway use a condom even if she has papers that show she is clean. Just will not take the risk.


rm_craven1on1 64M
682 posts
4/7/2012 6:52 pm

 <<<Thinking about "let him plunge in".

Okay back to adulthood... you need to know who you are with if you are willing to go unprotected. You're not just fucking each other, you're fucking everyone that both of you have ever fucked. (What if you've both fucked the same people? Hmmm...)

Craven - thinking about that "plunge in" part again.


rm_jamesinstl 62M
Ask me for a photo
6336 posts
4/3/2012 8:39 am

 I hate to use a rubber... I hate it so much so that I would rather just have mutual masturbation... So for that reason, I'm very picky about who I choose to sleep with. Not only that, but I certainly don't want to start a new family at 50... If I'm going to get up at 3 am...it's not going to be for fixing a bottle and changing a diaper. LOL...


rm_fursb 41M
Ask me for a photo
1 post
4/1/2012 11:46 pm

 Safe sex is very important if it isn't with someone you're willing to spend the rest of your life with.

If you fall in love with someone, enough that them having a STD doesn't bother you, that is more of a lifetime commitment then marriage, but if you don't love someone enough to spend the rest of your life with them, why risk it?


gentile_sadico 59M
1392 posts
3/31/2012 8:29 pm

 I just can't do that. I enjoy sex but am not willing to take that risk.


peter0819 64M
70 posts
3/22/2012 6:42 pm

 OK...I didn't put that little emoticon on there. This site has apparently presumed I meant to! What the fuck! I feel so powerless, yet pissed...ok, not pissed or powerless, but still...
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


peter0819 64M
70 posts
3/22/2012 6:40 pm

 First off, I got to say I like the accompanying visuals...as always. Second, I'm curious...how much difference is there in terms of quality of experience for the woman between an 'unadorned' cock and one that's sheathed (also, do 'ribbed' condoms make any difference...how about if the guy uses one of those things that one puts on like a ring, called 'the screamer'). Finally, a piece of advice if one believes in such things, if you find yourself on the verge of having unprotected sex and there are no condoms available, pray to Saint Fiacre...he is the Patron Saint of Venerial Disease (and Hemmorhoids).
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
3/21/2012 3:02 pm

 Can't remember the last time I used a condom. Funny..I just read an article on elder sex...more "old folks" like me are having sex a lot more often....lol...


whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
3/20/2012 8:22 am

 Unfortunately, I have done that once or twice as my hormones took over and I realized I've entered without a condom. However, for the most part, I use a condom. It's only after a while if I've been with someone in a LTR do I not use a condom when we've discussed being monogamous.
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tresennui replies on 3/25/2012 7:43 am:
Being in a monogamous LTR doesn't necessarily make it safe. It just means you've both agreed to risk it. You don't necessarily know what STIs are lurking inside. But as long as you're both ok with you gotta just enjoy yourselves. There's risks to a lot of things we do. Sex is just one of them and one of the most fun.

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