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Blogs > partygald > this way to heidi

We are all creatures of habit. Aren't we?  

partygald 41F
3081 posts
12/12/2020 6:20 pm

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12/21/2020 2:53 am
We are all creatures of habit. Aren't we?

It's been a heck of a week. Why is it that every year-end, it's "supposed" be slower, yet year on year, it just doesn't seem be that way. . I suppose I should be glad I’m still employed....going by the look of things. 

Speaking of which - one of the weeknights I came back home late cos I ended work late. I stepped in the front door and I heard the husband on the phone. I figured it was a work and left him alone. Without saying a thing, I closed the front door, and stripped. It wasn’t sexual or anything, it’s just a habit - first thing I do when I get home, I take off my clothes. In this case,  I’ve been in office attire the whole day, I don’t want spend another minute in them. I leave my pile of clothes at the bottom of the stairs and make my way into the kitchen to drop off a few things into the fridge, and grab myself a nice cold drink. 

The husband must have heard me cos I stepped out of the kitchen and he was in the living room, still on his , with his back towards me. All of a sudden I hear “whoa!!” And he turned to face me. He then started laughing and I hear laughing from his phone as well. Apparently, he was on a video . Thankfully it wasn'a work , but he was talking one of his golfing buddies. I was surprised how embarrassed I got the moment I realised what happened. . I think it’s more do with knowing who it was than anything else. The husband got a kick out of it and assured me how more popular I’ve suddenly become . Lol. Now every time his friend calls, he asks if I'm around -_-

I'm rarely on any form of social media. I find i don't have the energy for that outside of work cos I do that for work a fair bit. But anyhow. A couple of days ago, I chanced upon a post from the fwb. He was on a "staycation" and had posted a few pictures of him and his fiance. THey had checked themselves into a hotel room for a few days apparently. What got me was, I actually recognised the room! LOL. It's the same hotel and I even think the same room we had used previously! I mean, what are the odds?! I mean, the view from the balcony is the same! Overlooking a fairly prominent landmark. That was the exact spot when i got my upper back against the wall, with both my ankles over his shoulders and i was hanging onto his neck for dear life, getting sandwiched between him and the wall. Heh...good times. Maybe that's why I'm not on social media. Gets a bit awkward when i see shit like this. It just reminds me of the noise I made that night. And I get super self conscious about the noises I make

I guess that's...habitual as well...? Hmm....I don't know. I think I'm at least a little bit different when I'm with different people.

partygald 41F
1963 posts
12/12/2020 6:22 pm

 This made me realise too, it really IS a habit. First thing I do when I get home is strip. I really should check if anyone's home but really, why should I? Right? It's my home!!

Anyways. What kinda similar habits do you have? Inquisitive minds do wonder, you know... )


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
12/12/2020 8:27 pm

 I think the thing about habits is that you are not always conscious of them, which might be a cop out on my part for not mentioning one

I did have one Fuck buddy a few years back who used to say "Oh Mama, Oh Mama" at the point of orgasm LOL

On the subject of you Naked Bombing your hubbies video call, It crosses my mind that he must be completely aware of your habit of undressing as soon as you get home, and therefore was deliberately allowing his friend to "accidentally" see you naked


Harley_Bitch_69 61F
2 posts
12/12/2020 8:51 pm

 love it gf... i can see it all from your description and i was smiling here. i probably would have taken it a bit farther just to tease them both but then i can be that way once you knew it wasn't a work call but ohhhh that could have been so much fun too.... EFG

Mele Kalikimaka
Hau'oli Makahiki Hou


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
12/13/2020 5:03 am

 I'm sure the golf group will spend more time discussing this than playing golf the next round.. Enjoy every moment.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
12/13/2020 12:57 pm

 I'll look out for that video call being uploaded somewhere.
Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


partygald 41F
1963 posts
12/13/2020 8:01 pm
    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    I think the thing about habits is that you are not always conscious of them, which might be a cop out on my part for not mentioning one

    I did have one Fuck buddy a few years back who used to say "Oh Mama, Oh Mama" at the point of orgasm LOL

    On the subject of you Naked Bombing your hubbies video call, It crosses my mind that he must be completely aware of your habit of undressing as soon as you get home, and therefore was deliberately allowing his friend to "accidentally" see you naked
Oh shit. That did not cross my mind. Hmm....I don’t think the husband was pimping me out. At least not to this person he was talking to. Lol.
File this under “needs further investigation”


partygald 41F
1963 posts
12/13/2020 8:02 pm
    Quoting Harley_Bitch_69:
    love it gf... i can see it all from your description and i was smiling here. i probably would have taken it a bit farther just to tease them both but then i can be that way once you knew it wasn't a work call but ohhhh that could have been so much fun too.... EFG

    Mele Kalikimaka
    Hau'oli Makahiki Hou
Thanks for stopping by 💋


partygald 41F
1963 posts
12/13/2020 8:03 pm
    Quoting Looknfind18:
    I'm sure the golf group will spend more time discussing this than playing golf the next round.. Enjoy every moment.
Lol
I sure as hell hope not 😝
Don’t know if I’ll ever find out though.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
12/13/2020 8:04 pm
    Quoting MyBaffies:
    I'll look out for that video call being uploaded somewhere.
Nooooooo......wouldn’t someone have to have been recording for that to happen?


dogslife2live01 71M
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12/15/2020 2:24 am

 "I guess that's...habitual as well...? Hmm....I don't know. I think I'm at least a little bit different when I'm with different people."
we all are different with different people... mostly the same but with some changes
"This made me realise too, it really IS a habit. First thing I do when I get home is strip. I really should check if anyone's home but really, why should I? Right? It's my home!!"
why would you want to change when you can make someone's day just a little bit better
there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
12/16/2020 3:23 am
    Quoting partygald:
    Nooooooo......wouldn’t someone have to have been recording for that to happen?
Yeah don't worry, was just being fanciful.

Would have thought the husband would have been a bit more respectful and kept the camera pointing away from anything in the background that would have been inappropriate to show on a video call, but I don't know you as a couple and don't know whether being captured in the background (whether clothed or not) would be something you didn't care about or something you despise.
Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


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